Jacquelyn "Vickie" Patrick
July 28, 1957 ~ May 19, 2026
Born in:
Chattanooga, Tennessee
Resided in:
Arden, North Carolina
Jacquelyn Victoria “Vickie” Patrick, 68, passed peacefully surrounded by love after a courageous battle with glioblastoma.
Born on July 28, 1957, in Chattanooga, Vickie was raised in Canton, where she developed the warmth, determination, and spirited nature that would define her life. She graduated from Pisgah High School and later attended Haywood Technical College.
Vickie built a respected career as an administrative assistant to former North Carolina Senator Thomas Apodaca, where her intelligence, professionalism, and strong personality made a lasting impression on all who knew her.
She lived life energetically and fully. Vickie loved mountain biking, sailing, pickleball, Jazzercise, gardening, and especially the cultivation of orchids. A Master Gardener and active member of the Asheville Orchid Society, she was known for her beautiful gardens, sharp wit, and ability to make any place feel alive and welcoming. She also deeply loved animals and cared for many throughout her life.
Above all, Vickie loved her family fiercely. She is survived by her devoted husband, Ray Tobias; her daughter, Athalyn Sweeney and husband Michael Sweeney; her beloved grandchildren, A’ille and Lochlan, of Nantucket, Massachusetts; her brother, John Patrick and wife Cleta; her brother-in-law, Warren Tobias and wife Diana, of Truro, Massachusetts; and niece and nephew: Caitlin Martin and Zachary Tobias.
She was preceded in death by her parents and by her nephew, John Patrick.
Vickie will be remembered for her strength, intelligence, humor, independence, and the deep love she gave to those fortunate enough to know her. Her presence filled a room, and her absence will be profoundly felt.
Memorial arrangements will be shared with family and friends at a later date.
Services
Funeral Home Assisting The Family:
Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian
72 Long Shoals Road
Arden, NC 28704
(828)687-3530
http://grocefuneralhome.com
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Our thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time.
I was so happy to call Vickie my friend, on and off the pickleball court.
I will miss her deeply.
Wishing the family and other loved ones prayers of peace. May your memories comfort you.
I played Pickleball with Vickie. She was a better player than I was. But then, after several lessons, I started to beat her and she wanted to know why. I gave her the name of my pro. She signed up for lessons with that person, and then beat me all over again. Because, of the many things she was, she was a competitor. I loved that. I miss her.
Even though I had not seen Vickie in many years, she was always so nice to me in school. I will always remember her beautiful warm smile. My condolences to her family. Rest in Peace sweet friend.
Our hearts are broken for Ray, as we know how much they loved each other. Vickie was a joy that will be missed by everyone that had the good fortune to spend time with her.
Carol and Shawn
I always loved to dance with Vickie and missed her a lot this last year. She will be remembered by all who knew her fondly.
Ray, I am so sorry for your loss! Vickie and I have been friends since High School. I talked with her at least once a year. She is such a precious lady. You and your family are in my prayers!
To my dear friend, Ray and family
My heart aches for you at this hard season in your life. Please know that God loves and cares for you in this time. Lay all you sorrow and pain at His feet and let His peace fall all around you. I love you, my friend and treasure all the times we spent together working in the OR.
Ray, I’m so sorry for your loss. May you find peace over time.
I had the pleasure of spending every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday with Vickie and Ray. Vickie was such a kind woman with the best personality, and I always looked forward to my time with her each week. She always made me laugh with her facial expressions and quick comebacks. Both Vickie and Ray were so welcoming and made me feel truly loved and appreciated. Watching the way Ray cared for and loved Vickie was incredibly touching — he would do anything for her, and it was something I deeply admired. Ray, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you know how thankful I am to have spent the time I did with both of you. Sending you so much love during this difficult time. Vickie will be missed so very much.
Ray, though I met Vickie a few times, I didn’t know her well. But I know you loved her very much and will miss her for the rest of your life. I am glad she came into your life and feel sorrow for what her absence is to you. You are in my heart. 🩷 Lucretia