Gary Robert Barnes

gary barnes

November 9, 1954 ~ October 6, 2026

Born in: Buffalo, NY
Resided in: Leicester, NC

Gary Robert Barnes, 71, passed away on October 6, 2026, in Asheville, NC. He was born November 9, 1954, in Buffalo, NY.

Gary proudly served his country in the United States Air Force. Above all, he was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, and brother. He shared 28 years of marriage with his loving wife, Brenda, building a life and family together that meant so much to him.

Gary was the father of three sons, Aaron Barnes of Tennessee, Jared Barnes, and Sam Barnes and wife, Adeyn. He was also a step-father to Tom (Dawn), Fitch, and April (Doug). He was blessed with 12 grandchildren and one great-granddaughter.

Gary was preceded in death by his parents, Earl and Dorothy, and his great-granddaughter, Evie Pounds. He is survived by his wife; his children and stepchildren; his grandchildren and great-granddaughter; his brothers, Rick and Jeff; his sister, Linda Hickey; and many other family members and friends.

Gary will be remembered for his service to his country, his devotion to his family, and the many memories he leaves behind. His love and influence will continue to live on through the family he was so proud of.

A memorial service will be held on Friday, October 16, at 12:00 p.m. in the Patton Avenue chapel of Groce Funeral Home.

Services

Memorial Service: October 16, 2026 12:00 pm

Room: Chapel

Groce Funeral Home - Patton Ave.
1401 Patton Ave.
Asheville, NC 28806

(828) 252-3535
http://grocefuneralhome.com

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  1. You made it Cousin. You forged ahead of me your older cousin to be with Jesus. Remember all the great times we had growing up and how lucky we were to share life here with the best families anyone could have.

  2. My thoughts are with the loved ones left behind, especially Brenda and family, his siblings, and children. We know Uncle Gary is being welcomed by the family he has missed, adding his amazing singing voice to the chorus.


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