Ellsworth Rutherfoord Lyman Jr.
August 13, 1947 ~ April 12, 2026
Ellsworth Rutherfoord Lyman Jr, born August 13, 1947, passed away on April 12, 2026.
He is survived by his wife, Deborah Lyman; his daughter, Sterling Stevenson and her husband, John; his son, Ellsworth Rutherfoord Lyman III and his wife, Jennifer and four grandchildren, Banks and Mac Stevenson and Lillian and Katelyn Lyman.
A Memorial Service to celebrate his life will be held at 2:00 PM on Saturday, May 23 in the Chapel of Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian, 72 Long Shoals Road in Arden. His family will greet friends at the funeral home immediately following the service.
Services
Memorial Service: May 23, 2026 2:00 pm
Room: Chapel
Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian
72 Long Shoals Road
Arden, NC 28704
(828)687-3530
http://grocefuneralhome.com
The Family Will Greet Friends: May 23, 2026 2:30 pm
Room: Main Hall
Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian
72 Long Shoals Road
Arden, NC 28704
(828)687-3530
http://grocefuneralhome.com
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My prayers are with you all. Much love, Micki Skinner
You’re in our thoughts and prayers. May God comfort you today and in the days to come.
Blessings of peace to you and our sincere sympathy.
Bob and Beverly Hughes
Oh, Debbie, i hated to read this. Sandy and I played together from the time we were 4, and you and I became friends when you moved to Asheville. Love and hugs to you, Sterling, and Foord and your whole family. Sandy was something else-I can hear his laugh right now!
Debbie, I am so sorry to receive this news. Sandy was animated and so funny when I knew him. Prayers to you and your beautiful family ❤️
We were so sad to hear of Sandy’s passing. Over sixty-five years of friendship and he was one of kind. I will miss him. Sending our love to Debbie, Sterling and Foord and the rest of the family.