Betty Jean Lyda Roberts

betty roberts

October 3, 1943 ~ September 7, 2026

Born in: Buncombe Co., NC
Resided in: Asheville, NC

Betty Jean Lyda Roberts, 82, of Asheville, passed away Monday, September 7, 2026 at the CarePartners Solace Center.

Mrs. Roberts was born October 3, 1943 in Buncombe County and was a daughter of the late Thomas Edward Lyda and Margaret Louise Pruitt Lyda. She was also preceded in death by her husband, James Edward Roberts. She worked for Blue Ridge Plating Co., and had attended Oakley Baptist Church.

She is survived by two daughters, Debbie Stewart (Terry Lee) and Karen Barlow; grandchildren, Wendy Marie Alexander, Jason, Matthew and Ashlee Stewart, and Richard Travis Barlow; 11 great-grandchildren; 4 great-great grandchildren; and a sister, Nancy “Kay” Smith.

Her family will receive friends beginning at noon on Tuesday, September 15, at Groce Funeral Home on Patton Ave. The graveside service will follow at Woodlawn Cemetery at 1:00 p.m. Pastor Willard Pruitt will officiate.

Groce Funeral Home on Patton Avenue is assisting the family.

Services

Visitation: September 15, 2026 12:00 pm - 12:45 pm

Groce Funeral Home - Patton Ave.
1401 Patton Ave.
Asheville, NC 28806

(828) 252-3535
http://grocefuneralhome.com

Graveside Service: September 15, 2026 1:00 pm

Woodlawn Cemetery
9 Cypress Drive
Asheville, NC 28803


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  1. I was the Oldest Grandchild of Betty and Jimmy, as well as; the youngest daughter raised by the couple. My fondest and probably some of my youngest memories of my Nanny were helping her with her gardening projects in the yard. Nanny loved roses, they were most definitely her favorite flower. I was maybe 4 or 5 years old and I remember watching her dig a hole in specific areas around the yard, not all in one day, it varied each spring/summer,however; each rose bush she brought home and dug the hole, she would then help me get the rose bush out of the lil pot and she would tell me to put it in the hole she had dug, then she told me to use my hands and scoop that fresh dug soil onto the roots; covering it up a lil ways up the bottom of the stalk. I always patted the dirt around that pretty lil rose bush, so proud because I was helping my Nanny make her yard beautiful. I asked her why she didn’t plant the bush, why did she always ask me to put it in the hole and cover it with my hands, she told me that roses were really peticular about who planted them, that only certain people were special enough to plant roses and the roses would grow up to be very beautiful…then, she would smile so proud of me and say, Wendy you must be one of those special people because every rose bush I helped her plant, no matter what side of the yard; would grow to be big and beautiful…almost as beautiful as me. Nanny’s most favorite rose bush she would always tell me was yellow roses, but she just never could keep them alive. About 6, maybe 7 Mother’s day ago I went and picked out one of the prettiest and healthiest looking yellow rose bushes I could find and took it to the house she had been living in since her mother died and I brought my shovel and a few ties and planted the beautiful bush right up in the frontyard beside the gate door. That bush was huge come the following spring and summer and thrived until she sold the house. She was so proud of that bush, I’m not sure if it was because the bush was so pretty or because I planted it for her like when I was little and that bush was stunning. I miss my Nanny so much already, I am so lucky and Blessed to have a woman like her to raise me. I love you and will forever thank God for you and Pappa! Give Pappa a big hug for me at that pearly gate and tell him I love and miss him too!

  2. Amazing Aunts are a true blessing from God’s own heart. Even though we lived away from each other, I experience such a warm sensation in my heart every time I think about Betty. My mother Sandra Hoyle ( her sister-in-law), has been telling me so many beautiful and also wonderful memories she has had with Betty. My prayers are with all my cousins. My heart, thoughts and prayers are with Debbie and Karen.

  3. I will forever hold the smell of clean, fresh laundry close to my heart. A good bowl of cereal will never taste quite the same. The memory of sitting on the couch and watching Nanny get riled up over *Jerry Springer* or *Maury* will comfort me on the hardest days.

    Watching the day unfold while enjoying a cup of coffee will be a ritual I continue as a way of feeling close to her. No laugh will ever compare to hers, and I will forever long for one last hug or phone call. Every rose bush, every flea market, and every McDonald’s ice cream cone will carry a little more meaning now that she is gone.

    Although this is the end of an amazing chapter of my life with Grandma, I know she is exactly where she wants to be: in the arms of her best friend and soulmate, and in the arms of her loving Heavenly Father.

    Rest in peace, Nanny Betty. You will always be loved and deeply missed.

  4. The sweetest sister-in-law in the world love you Betty tell Jimmy Andy and Lorene they are missed and loved

  5. Betty would always come down to Lorene’s to have coffee with her. I loved hearing them talk. Betty and Jimmy were such good people. Me and Betty would go to the pool to let Wendy swim. Such good times with this lady. Betty I will never forget you and Jimmy. My prayers for Debbie and Karen. Wendy my prayers are with you all the family. ❤️🙏

  6. I worked with Betty at Blue Ridge Plating. She was such a lovely lady. I will never forget her help at work. She will never be forgotten


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