Mary Ellen Burgess
October 3, 1937 ~ March 19, 2026
Born in:
Buncombe County, NC
Resided in:
Asheville, NC
Mary C. Burgess, 88, of Asheville, died Thursday, March 19th, 2026, at Bear Mountain Health and Rehabilitation after an extended illness. Mrs. Burgess was born in Asheville and was the daughter of the late Benjamin F. Cothran, Sr. and Edith Brown Ball. She married James L. Burgess, Sr. on July 27, 1968. They were married until his death in 2003. She was also preceded in death by her son, Christopher Dean Burgess, sisters, Jane Harrison and Deborah Milner, and brothers, Ralph Ball, Jr., James “Jim” Ball, and nephew, Jeffrey Harrison.
She was a graduate of Memorial Mission School of Nursing class of 1957. Mary was proud to be a Mission Belle and remained active with Mission Belle alumni association. She was very involved with her family and friends. Prior to retiring from the Charles George VA Medical Center, Mary had been the Director of Nursing at Brentwood Nursing Home (now Bear Mountain Health Care). She assisted her late husband in operating Burgess Nurses Registry. Mary worked not only at Mission Hospital, but at hospitals in Atlanta, Georgia and Knoxville, Tennessee. Mary was licensed in North Carolina as a Registered Nurse for 60 years.
She is survived by her son, James Burgess and wife Serena of Mars Hill; two daughters, Mary Lisa Loggins Knight and her husband Dwayne of Monroe, GA and Amber Cox and husband Jason of Hendersonville; four grandsons, Garrett, Dillon and wife Savannah, and Wyatt Knight of Monroe, GA and Kolin Burgess of Mars Hill, and three granddaughters, Katelyn Ferrell and her husband Michael of Palmyra, VA, Kelland Cox of Hendersonville, and Josey Burgess of Mars Hill. Mary was also the great grandmother of two, Bentley and Jackson Ferrell. She is also survived by her brother by choice, Mark Smith of Asheville. Her daughters-in-law, Ashley Tweed and Kristi Hendrix of Palmyra, VA and April Rice of Weaverville survive. Her brother, Benjamin F. Cothran, Jr. and sister, Sandra, three nephews, three nieces, and their children survive as well.
She will be fondly remembered by her family and friends for her quick wit and willingness to volunteer with time, talents, or money. Her children and grandchildren were her life after the passing of Jim- followed closely by ACC Basketball, the Atlanta Braves, and the Carolina Panthers.
The family would like to extend their sincere thanks to Bear Mountain and Four Seasons Hospice for taking such good care of Momma. Also, many thanks to Momma’s friend, Pat Melton, and all the Water Lillies for making her final years fun. Mary was also active in the alumni group of the Memorial Mission nursing school. Her Mission Belle friends include Peggy Packett, Peggy Whisnant, Jan Wright, and Sheila Howard.
Funeral services will be at 11:00 a.m. Wednesday, April 1st, at Groce Funeral Home on Patton Ave. with Rob Phelan officiating. The family will receive friends from 7:00 to 9:00 p.m. Tuesday, March 31, at the funeral home.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Crossnore Communities for Children, Hendersonville Office, 1410 Greenville Highway, Hendersonville, NC 28792 or Meals on Wheels of Asheville & Buncombe County, 146 Victoria Road, Asheville, NC 28801.
Services
Visitation: March 31, 2026 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Groce Funeral Home - Patton Ave.
1401 Patton Ave.
Asheville, NC 28806
(828)252-3535
http://grocefuneralhome.com
Funeral Service: April 1, 2026 11:00 am
Groce Funeral Home - Patton Ave.
1401 Patton Ave.
Asheville, NC 28806
(828)252-3535
http://grocefuneralhome.com
Funeral Home Assisting The Family:
Groce Funeral Home - Patton Ave.
1401 Patton Ave.
Asheville, NC 28806
(828)252-3535
http://grocefuneralhome.com
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To think of you leaving your earthly body seems unreal. Your steady presence in our lives brought us all such comfort. You were so dedicated to taking care of all of us… and especially caring for my brother throughout his life. Your love and dedication could never be questioned. You wanted to spoil us. You wanted to be there. You always showed up. It never failed. As an adult, I can look back with so much respect and appreciation. From the bottom of my heart: thank you.
I have tears as I can hear you say, “Well hey Miss Kate!” Always so joyful… I will truly miss that. I never once saw you in a bad mood… or at least you never showed it. I can’t remember a time you expressed any anger or frustration towards us… all you had was love. Know that we felt that and we will carry it with us for the rest of our days.
But you did tell on me for telling my brother he was sent to us from FedEx… Nana! That makes me smile… along with remembering that every time you invited me into your home we baked chocolate chip cookies. It never failed. You always wanted to do that activity with me… you knew it brought me joy and excitement… and as small as that is, it is so meaningful to me.
I will always remember one of the last times that I was able to visit you. You brought out your scrapbook and were so happy to share your nursing license and accompanying stories with me and my brother. We laid on the couch and just listened to you recount events in your life. Those are the stories that we can always look back on and remember of you.
My heart is hurting, and I can’t begin to imagine the pain that my brother and your children are feeling right now. You were so important… the rock of your family. An integral part that held everyone together. I hope you know how loved and appreciated you truly are.
I am sending everyone my love during this difficult time.
Nana… you will be so missed. But I know you will remain with us in a different way. I hope that now you can rest. I thank you. I love you. Until we meet again.
Amber – I got acquainted with your family when Shian playing little league basketball. Your mom started coming to Mt Carmel to church. She helped me in concessions for Upward Sports for years at the church. She was always so sweet and such a precious lady. Keeping you and your family in my prayers.
Mary was one of a kind — the best kind. I was her Administrative Assistant at Brentwood Hills Nursing Center (when it was still called that). She was the best of everything. Working with her was a joy and a privilege. She and Jim became friends to me and we remained so years after we had parted ways working together. She was so supportive when I went on to seminary and was ordained a minister. I loved the times we reconnected through the years. My thoughts and prayers are with you all as you now adjust to life with the huge hole she has left. But I know her and know she left you with a wealth of memories and love. It was an honor to have known her and called her friend. Rest well. Until we meet again.