Mary Catherine Weixlmann
October 10, 1919 ~ January 24, 2010
Resided in:
Asheville, NC
Asheville ~ Sis Degenhart Weixlmann, 90, of Asheville, died of pneumonia following surgery on Sunday, January 24, 2010.
Born in Buffalo, NY, she was the beloved wife for 66 years of Joseph N. Weixlmann, Sr., who preceded her in death this past August. The couple wed on June 26, 1943. She has been a member of the Basilica of St. Lawrence since coming to Asheville in July 1978.
Sis, as friends call her, is survived by her son Joe, Jr., her daughter-in-law Sharron Pollack, and their three children Adira, Ben, and Seth – all of whom live in St. Louis.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held 10:00 A.M. at the Basilica of St. Lawrence, D. M., Asheville on Thursday, January 28, 2010.
A graveside service will be held 11:00 AM Saturday, January 30, 2010 in Mount Calvary Cemetery in Buffalo, NY.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Basilica of St. Lawrence, 97 Haywood St., Asheville, NC 28801.
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Dad–
There isn’t a whole lot that I can say to make things better, but I know over the last couple of days we have spoken about how much Oma impacted our lives. I fondly remember many moments, and cannot wait to give you an enormous hug when I get home. I hope seeing Mom on Wednesday will provide some much-needed support in this trying time.
Thinking back on her life today, I noted watching Oma and Opa’s 50th anniversary tape over break. I remember how glad you were to have seen that with us, and how much it meant to you.
I love you so incredibly much.
Ben
To the Weixlmann Family,
Words cannot fully express condolences after a loss. I can only offer my support to Ben, Mr. Weixlmann and the rest of the Weixlmann family over the coming days. I wish you all the best and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerest condolences,
Eric Simpson
Ben & Weixlmann Family,
It was with a great sense of sadness when I heard of your Grandmother’s death. As Eric said, words seem inadequate, but I wanted to let you know that my heart is truly with you at this time.
If there is anything that I can do to help you in anyway, please do not hesitate to call me/email me at anytime.
My sincere thoughts and prayers are with you. With deepest sympathy, Erica Caitlin.
As I look at the picture of Oma, I cannot help but get choked up. She was so stoic, friendly, and warm-hearted, and I am so sad this had to happen to such a good person.
Dad — Know that I and the rest of the family are here for you. We love you and can hardly fathom how hard this must be for you right now. Please let us know anything we can do, and we will be more than willing to assist in anything we can.
Oma — I want to you know just how much I love you. It will be hard to know that there will probably be no more trips to Asheville, NC. But I am so thankful to have seen you there just a few short weeks ago.
Much, much love,
Adira
All my thoughts and prayers are with your entire family, from St Louis to Asheville, Ann Arbor to Madrid!
Dear Joe, Sharon, Seth, Adira and Ben,
I am so sorry to learn of your mother and your Oma’s death. I look at her picture and I can only imagine how much love and sparkle and strength she brought to all of your lives. I pray that the next days bring healing and that her memory will be a blessing for generations.
Much love,
Rabbi Susan
Please know that your family in SLU Madrid has your beloved mother and grandmother and the rest of the Weixlmann family in our thoughts and prayers. Un fuerte abrazo
Dear Weixlmann Family, I will make sure to keep all of you and Mary in my thoughts and prays. I cant even imagine the immense amount of sadness you are dealing with. If I can help in any way during this trying time, please do not hesitate to ask. As of now I can only offer my most heartfelt condolences. Nick Wery
Dear Joe, Sharron, Seth, Adira and Ben,
We share your grief and sorrow upon the loss of your mother, mother-in-law and grandmother.
Our fondest remembrances of Mary center on her remarkable resilience in the midst of turmoil. We remember her quiet bravery when faced with the threat of an aggressive cancer. We remember her calm ‘Now, Joe’ temper Joe Sr’s extreme positions. We remember how she calmly defused potential disputes. Most of all, we remember her loving devotion to her family.
We will miss her. Marcille and Irwin Pollack
Joe Weixlmann and Family,
Our condolences go out to Joe and the rest of the Weixlmann family in this time of unexpected loss. As we read through all of the comments and listen to the stories of those who were close with Grandma Weixlmann, it is evident that she was strong willed and lived a long and fulfilling life. I know it has been a trying time these past few months, but know that we are always here as close friends to lean on. We will continue to keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers.
-Jacob Fish & Family
Joe and Family
You have our deepest sympathy for the passing of your Mother and Grandma.
We always enjoyed thr visits from Uncle Joe and Aunt Sis when they came to Buffalo and
Dear Joe,
Your mother always held a dear and special place in your heart. She was the quintessential devoted wife to your father and she was a mother who created a household that allowed you to thrive. She was awfully sweet, very kind, and immensely patient, even as she heard your Dad telling a story she had probably heard many, many times before. Simultaneously, she could also be strong, devout in her faith, and incredibly on top of things. Although she lived a long and gracious life her death felt like an unjust assault and hopefully in the end she found peace amidst the pain.
Your situation with the passing of both of your parents in these last few months is beyond difficult. The kids and I will do what we can to help you and support you as you deal with these losses that have left a hole in your heart.
Much love, Shashie
Dear Joe, Sharron, Seth, Adira, and Ben,
It is so hard to lose a parent or grandparent, especially when the others have gone, and it is particularly hard to watch them suffer as you just have. I remember Mary as a strong, happy person. I think I met her for the first time at your wedding, but I really began to appreciate her as I watched her visit you while the children were young. I hope you can remember all of the good memories and be grateful that you had her for so long.
I am thinking of you through this very difficult period,
Leslie
Joe,
I would like to express my deepest sympathy for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
Sincerely,
Linda Hoechst