Kenneth Allen Butler

kenneth butler

August 22, 1942 ~ April 23, 2025

Born in: Asheville, NC
Resided in: Asheville, NC

Kenneth Allen Butler, 82, of Asheville, NC, passed away peacefully at his home on Wednesday, April 23rd, 2025, surrounded by love.

Ken was born on August 22, 1942, to the late James L. Butler and Geneva Smith Butler.

He spent over five decades dedicated to the automobile industry, where his strong work ethic and commitment earned him the respect of many. But while he was devoted to his career, his greatest joy was always his family.

Ken is survived by his loving wife and dance partner of many years, Gwen Bishop Butler. Together, they shared a deep love for traveling, especially to Folly Beach, South Carolina, holding a special place in their hearts. For 17 years, they visited often, and when they weren’t soaking up the sun, you could find them enjoying a meal at their favorite spot, The Crab Shack. Ken also leaves behind his three children, each of whom brought him immense pride: Pam Podwel (Craig), Scott Wilbanks (Debbie) and Veronica “Cricket” Haake (Jeff). He is also survived by two dear sisters, Dixie Pelle and Wanda Baker and loved his nieces and nephews. To his grandchildren he was affectionately known as “Papa” — a title he cherished above all. Whether sharing stories, cracking jokes, or cheering them on in their own pursuits, Papa was always present with love and encouragement.

Sundays were sacred to Ken — not only for spending time with family but also for catching every NASCAR race. He was a true fan, never missing a lap. His love for country music and comedy added to his vibrant personality, always quick with a joke or a funny story to brighten someone’s day. His spirited, fun-loving nature made sure there was never a dull moment in his company.

Ken’s generosity knew no bounds—he was always ready to lend a helping hand, offer support, or share a kind word when it was needed most. His zest for life, his laughter, and his unwavering love for those around him will be deeply missed by all who knew him. His legacy of hard work, devotion to family, and the joy he spread through his humor and warmth will live on in the hearts of those he leaves behind.

A celebration of Ken’s life will be held on Sunday, April 27th, 2025. The visitation will be held at 2:00 p.m. with the service following at 3:00 p.m. at Groce Funeral Home on Tunnel Road. There will be a private burial held the following day.

His memory will forever live on, the laughter he shared, the love he gave, and the countless lives he touched.

Services

Funeral Service: April 27, 2025 3:00 pm

Groce Funeral Home on Tunnel Road
856 Tunnel Rd.
Asheville, NC 28805

(828)299-4416
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com

Visitation: April 27, 2025 2:00 pm

Groce Funeral Home on Tunnel Road
856 Tunnel Rd.
Asheville, NC 28805

(828)299-4416
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com

Funeral Home Assisting The Family:

Groce Funeral Home on Tunnel Road
856 Tunnel Rd.
Asheville, NC 28805

(828)299-4416
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com

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  1. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during the loss of your loved one, Ken will be greatly missed by his family and friends, Ken is in the loving hands of Jesus, love the butler family, Doc Linda,Tony

  2. Cricket, I am so sorry to learn of your dad. I remember having such nice conversations at the Oakley barber shop when he’d be there when I would take Cody to see Mr. Rice. Just know how much I love you my lifelong friend and if you need me, you know where I am.

  3. I worked with Ken at the ‘Datsun’ dealership and later it became Nissan. He was such a good guy. He assisted many families and individuals in purchasing a vehicle. My thoughts are with the family.

  4. Our fond memories of Kenny Butler were always about family and friends getting together to celebrate life and our love for one another. Holiday Cook outs and beach trips stand out in our minds as every one of us were tight nit back then. Those were the days we miss the most. We pray God will send strength and peace to Kenny’s family to go on without him. We send our love to all of them.

  5. Wishing the family much love and comfort with the passing of Kenneth. The Buncombe Child Support family has you in our thoughts and prayers.

  6. Ken was a special person and the only car dealer I trusted 100%. As an Asheville Police Officer Ken provided help whenever I needed it. He will truly be missed.

  7. Ken and Becky, send our condolence to Gwen and family so sorry to hear about Ken passing we do remember lots of good times with partying and going to the beach with Ken and Gwen ,God bless you Gwen and your family as you go through this journey of life with out your love one. Ken will be missed!!

  8. We are so sorry for your loss you both were always wonderful friends remembering all the good times we had back in the days. prayers for you and your family.

  9. Good times were the absolute normal when you were around Ken and Gwen . I will never forget the trips to the races, stopping by the dealerships and laughing with everyone. Hard to believe that so many friends are gone.
    Thanks for the good times!
    Till we see each other again!!

  10. With deepest sorrow and love for my family I give my condolences.
    Ken was such an outgoing, funny man that took family seriously and provided well. I miss him. His passing has left a void that can’t be filled.
    May you all find the Peace and Comfort only God can give.
    I love you Gwen and pray for all that love Ken🙏🙏💖💖
    I love you, Gwen and

  11. Gwen and family, so sorry to hear of the passing of Ken.
    Thoughts and prayers for you all.

  12. Ken was such a sweet, kind and funny soul! You will be missed by many Uncle Ken! Love and Prayers for Gwen and family!

  13. Gwen, I am so sorry for your loss. I always enjoyed the time we spent with Ken when we visited. Keeping you all in our prayers during this difficult time.

  14. We are sure going to miss going to the beach without Ken but we have the memories of the past & Jeff & Ken talking sports especially NASCAR. Love & thought to Gwen & family 💕. Jeff,Gretchen ,April ,Tiffany &Gary

  15. Gwen and family you have my deepest sympathy, Ken was a great man, i will always cherish the memories we had, he always treated me great and there was never a dull moment when he was around. R.I.P KEN

  16. Ken was my classmate at A C Reynolds. I remember his humor. He loved to pull pranks and tell jokes. Always friendly and kind. Over the years I have seen him at several class reunions and he had not changed. We will miss him at our next reunion. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.


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