Herb Coman

October 20, 1920 ~ July 13, 2009
Resided in:
Asheville, NC
J. Herbert Coman, 88 of 529 Crowfields Lane, Asheville, died peacefully following an extended illness on July 13 at the John Keever Solace Center, where he and his family received exemplary care from the compassionate, dedicated staff. He was the third child born to the late Floy Wilson Coman, a school teacher, and the late Grover Lonus Coman, an employee of Southern Railroad, on Oct. 20, 1920 in Dutch Cove, Canton, NC. Herb was also preceded in death by his beloved wife of 54 years, Elizabeth Rhodes Coman; his sister Selma Coman Dicus; his brother, William Reuben Coman and nephews William Coman Dicus and Howard William Coman.
Mr. Coman was a veteran, serving in the U. S. Army Air Corp, 745 Bombardment Squadron during WWII in the Mediterranean and Italy. He was awarded The Order of the Long Leaf Pine by the Governor of the State of North Carolina in 2002. At Asheville Buncombe Technical College he served as Chairman of the Board of Trustees, Trustee Emeritus, and received the President`s Award. He was a member of the Kiwanis Club of Black Mountain Swannanoa for 47 years, receiving the George F. Hixson Fellow, the Distinguished Service Award and the Legion of Merit Award and was a member of the Country Club of Asheville and former member of the Board of Governors.
Herb was a graduate of the University of South Carolina with a BS in Geology and a Masters Degree in Education from the University of North Carolina. He was a former President of the Kappa Phi Kappa Education Fraternity and member of the Sigma Chi Fraternity. He was also former President of the WNC Personnel Club, President of the Western Carolina Manufactures Association, President of the WNC Safety Council, member of the NC Department of Labor OSHA Board, the Swannanoa Community Council, President of the Swannanoa Men`s Club, member of the Black Mountain Chamber of Commerce and served on the Human Relations Council. He served as Chairman of the Citizens Committee for Better Schools for Buncombe County and on the Task Force to Study Buncombe County Schools.
He was Chairman of the Personnel Advisory Board for the Buncombe County Sheriff`s Department and President and Founder of the Swannanoa Valley Medical Center and served on the Owen District School Council. He was a member and Chairman of the WNC and NC Employment Security Commissions, member and Chairman of the Swannanoa Valley Fire Department and was a member of Swannanoa Methodist Church, teaching Sunday School for 50 years and serving as Lay Speaker. He was a current member of the Biltmore United Methodist Church.
Herb served on the Governor`s N.C. Task Force on Science and Technology and was Trustee and Secretary on the Advisory Board of the NC School of Math and Science in Durham.
Herb was a member of the WNC Sports Hall Fame, the UNCA Athletic Hall of Fame and the Owen High School Athletic Hall of Fame. At Lee Edwards High School he earned twelve Letters in football, basketball and baseball, was All State three times, All Southern, and played in the inaugural NC Shrine Bowl. At the University of South Carolina he earned seven Letters in football, basketball, baseball, and was named All South Football. He coached at David Millard Jr. High School, Lee Edwards High School, served as Asheville-Biltmore College (UNCA) Athletic Director, Dean of Men and Football Coach. He was an Athletic Official in high school and college, calling 746 varsity football games and over 2500 basketball games.
Herb is survived by his wife, Sara Ruple Coman of Asheville and brother Howard G. Coman of Woodruff, SC; children, James Herbert Coman, Jr. and wife, Helen, of Asheville, Gerald Rhodes Coman of Myrtle Beach and Elizabeth Anne Coman O`Connor and husband, Bernie, of Cary; four grandsons, Jason Rhodes Coman and wife, Jodi, of Mars Hill, Brett Middleton Coman of Myrtle Beach, Patrick Coman O`Connor and wife, Sarah, of Eugene, Oregon and Cameron Wilson O`Connor of Wheaton College, Illinois; a great granddaughter, Elizabeth Grace Coman of Mars Hill; nieces and nephews, Rebecca Jane Dicus, Susan Dicus Walters, Marie Dicus Ivester, Fabiane Coman Bartlett and Jeffery Arthur Coman.
A memorial service will be held at Biltmore United Methodist Church at 3:00 pm on Thursday conducted by the Reverend Susan E. Pillsbury-Taylor. The family will receive friends following the service. A private, family interment was held at the Western Carolina State Veterans Cemetery in Black Mountain.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the AB Tech Foundation, the Eblen-Kimmel Foundation, the Swannanoa United Methodist Church or the Mountain Amateur Athletic Club, c/o J.D. Jackson Assoc.
So sorry to hear of the passing of Mr.Coman,,,he was one of the nicest people you would ever want to meet,,Cherish his memories they are forever………………
The entire Coman family is in our prayers. We know that Mr. Coman is celebrating with his Lord, but those who remain on Earth have many memories to hold on to from his life and how he touched others.
With love, Linda and Tom Gemmer
I was sad to hear of the passing of such a wonderful man. I have very fond memories of Mr. Coman when I was a young child at the Swannanoa UMC. As I grew up in the valley, I can still remember many of the things he taught me concerning being a person of character. Our loss is Heaven’s gain. My prayers are with you family.
Herb’s Family I have known Herb and Howard for a lot of years and knew Reuben too. Regardless of age, health, or any other circumstance in life we are never ready to give up our loved ones. The only comfort has to come from our Faith in the Sovereignty of God and the manifested concern of caring friends. We are thinking of you and will hold you in our prayers. Joe and Zunita Clark
I was never much of an athlete, but was still lucky enough to play under ‘Coach’ Coman in the mid 1950’s. One of my great memories was cutting around the end of the line, football under my arm, running as fast as I could run. There in front of me, RUNNING BACKWARDS, was Coach yelling ‘Run! Run! Run!’
He was instrumental in keeping many a young man on the straight and narrow and I am sure there are literally thousands of great memories of him.
Rest in peace, Coach….
A great man who played a great role in my life. I still remember those laps at David Miller and the chemistry classes at Asheville-Biltmore College, now UNCA.
God Bless!
Tom Atkinson
Dear Coman Family,
Our dear friend Herb will be remembered and cherished for his unending ability to love, mentor and guide those privileged to know him. He was a fine example of the ultimate southern gentleman who exemplified the Love of God through every aspect of his life.
Coach Coleman was not only a great man but a wonderful teacher and coach as well. He influenced many lives during his years as a coach and teacher at David Millard Junior High School.
Jim, just wanted to say how sorry I am to hear about your Dad. Sound like he was a great support to you and your family and I know he will be surely missed. Your Friend Terry
I spent many, many hours with Herb in board meetings and found him to be dedicated and hard-working. He was a great friend to have all those years. Joe and Aleta
Dear Coman Family,
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. Herb was a wonderful, caring, and compassionate man. I have been greatly blessed by having known him. I treasure the moments we shared, he will always have a special place in my heart. I pray that you will find comfort and strength in knowing that he is in the great care of our Heavenly Father. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Anne, thank you so much for calling me, I truly appreciate it.
God’s Blessings…
Love,
Lori Ward and Chuck Tuesburg
Dear Coman Family,
We were privileged to meet Mr. Coman and enjoy many joyous family celebrations with him and you. He truly was a ‘Mountain of a Man!’ His wonderful legacy of love and service lives on in you and your children. Our prayers are with you.
Love, Bill and Cindy Leslie and family
Jim, thinking of you. Jim & Debbie
The Coman Family,
Coach Coman was an inspiring man, never far from my memory of playing football in Asheville. The last time I talked with him was a phone call informing him of the passing of my mother. It was a joy to hear him on the phone. I am happy that he is now forever with with his Lord.
Vernon Caston
Jim and family I am so sorry to hear the news of Herb passing. I just want you to know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Bucky
Jason,
I am so sorry to hear about your grandfather. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Thinking of you during this time.
Charlotte
Coman Family … Herb was a teacher, mentor, friend and community leader to many in Western North Carolina. Through my late father, I first met Herb when he was at Beacon. He was indeed a man to match the WNC mountains. He will be missed.
Jim,
I am so sorry to hear the news of your Dad’s passing. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
—Allen
Jim,Jerry and Anne,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. Your Dad was a very faithful and caring friend to all who knew him. He was a good friend to our Dad 29 years ago during his battle with cancer. He supported him with his prayers and visits during his illness and our loss. Even with his busy schedule, he always had time for support for others.
Rita Setser Deweese
Brenda Setser Brandon
Virginia Setser
Herb was a very valuable member of the Industry Advisory Board of the North Carolina Department of Labor between 1977 and 1992. He contributed a great deal to the people of North Carolina. Nancy and I send our condolences to his family and local friends for his loss. John C. and Nancy Brooks
I am so sorry to hear this sad news, but good memories of our days playing football with our wonderful Coach Coman will always be with me. I was his Quarterback for the Winning Mighty Mites! We had such great times, and kept Asheville entertained, and it was because of a Great Coach. He will be sorely missed by all who knew him. He will be coaching in Heaven from now on….God has a good man!
My dad (Bob) always spoke highly of Mr. Coman, and I remember him getting dad into the letterman’s club at USC a couple of times. I also remember Mr. Coman as a ref in high school football when I grew up in Western North Carolina.
I am very sorry to hear of his passing….
Coman family…Herb was my Dad’s ‘oldest’ and last childhood friend, going back to elementary school in west Asheville. My Dad (Bob Spiro) dearly loved him and will miss him. Dad has quoted a poem about life and about watching the ‘leaves’ (friends and loved ones) fall, one by one, as you age. He has told me Herb was one of the last, and most dearly treasured, leaves. For my part, Herb was a mentor of sorts to me and he touched my life in ways that I will never forget. May the Lord’s grace comfort you all and please know that Herb will live on in our hearts.
Anne,
I just found out Mr. Coman had passed away—I have been out of town alot this summer– I thought alot of your dad–you are in my prayers
Larry
Thank you Coach. You were instrumental in my life.