Cecil Robert Mahy

cecil mahy

November 23, 1926 ~ October 20, 2020


Resided in: Asheville, NC

Cecil Robert Mahy, age 93, of Asheville North Carolina, passed away on the morning of October 20, 2020. He was born on November 23, 1926, in the British Channel Island of Guernsey, just off the coast of Normandy, France. His parents immigrated to the U.S. and raised Cecil in Morristown, NJ.

Upon graduating high school during the height of World War II, Cecil joined the Army. He did his basic training in the heat of Georgia and was deployed to the South Pacific. A critical month for Cecil was August of 1945. He and his company were assigned to deploy to sea on a troop ship. They were unaware of their destination, which was not at all unusual for most soldiers during the war.

After being at sea for a few weeks, the ship was ordered to return to port. On this return voyage the announcement was made to the crew detailing the bombings of Hiroshima on the 6th and Nagasaki on the 9th. It became clear to all what would be confirmed much later; they had been destined to join the forces in a full invasion of Japan had the flight of the Enola Gay not been successful.

Those tragic and historic nuclear events effectively ended the war with Japan and resulted in saving the lives of everyone on that ship, along with countless others. They were then dispatched for cleanup on Guam. During this process, Cecil and his two roommates were told to board up their hut due to an approaching storm. Instead, they decided to have a few beers to celebrate their good fortune and were soon scrambling from a typhoon. After the storm passed, they were quite pleased to see that their hut was the lone surviving one in the company.

On his return home Cecil secured a job repairing and installing antennas with Sears, where he befriended Eugene Berry. Gene soon introduced Cecil to his sister, Elizabeth. This was the second major turning point in his life. Elizabeth was an energetic, beautiful and newly arrived immigrant from Ireland. They fell in love and married on May 12, 1951. Betty, as she was known, became the eternal partner and driving force in the life of Cecil for the next 68 years of their marriage.

Cecil and Betty settled in Rockaway, N.J. and raised three children, Regina, Linda, and Russell. Due to his service in the war and the G.I. Bill, Cecil was able to pay for Jet School in Michigan, specializing in radar and communications technology. This set him on his career path to becoming the top radar and communications technician on Cessna aircraft for Aircraft Radio corporation in Boonton, N.J. His older brother Ron also joined Aircraft Radio and the families grew up together.

Cecil found relaxation in his garage with his neighbors, family and friends, working on anyone’s car that needed help. In that era, every car needed work, but it was clear that his repairs were fairly quick even though several ‘meetings’ lasted into the night. Cecil loved this and to his last day was the man to see about fixing anything.

Cecil survived a serious bout with Hepatitis when the children were very young. In 1972 he and Betty decided to relocate the family to the appealing climate of Seminole, Fl. Cecil’s aunt Cecile came to live with them, and they cared for her until her passing at 100 years old. Cecil and Betty were beyond excited to embrace their two granddaughters, Christina and Natalie. The girls were soon joined with the birth of their cousin Chase in Texas. Nothing could compare with the many magical days the grandchildren spent with their beloved Nana and Pop-pop in Florida, Texas and North Carolina.

Cecil and Betty moved to Asheville, N.C., where Cecil retired. They lived near their daughter Regina, and her husband, Ron, whom they regarded as a second son. Regina and Ron loved spending time with Betty and Cecil, and provided tremendous care for them for the rest of their lives. We lost Betty on Thanksgiving Day, 2019. Cecil was the most caring husband any woman could ever ask for, especially during her final years of painful decline. The birth in 2020 of their great granddaughter Cameron brought him great joy and peace. Cecil will be remembered for his strength, joy, devotion, and sincere kindness every day of his wonderful life.

Cecil is survived by his loving children Regina Mahy, Linda Mahy, Russell Mahy (Carolyn) and cherished grandchildren Christina Mahy, Natalie Humbel (Kevin), and Chase Muller. He is also survived by his sister Gertrude Kelly. In addition to his wife, he was preceded in death by his brother Ronald Mahy, sister Joyce Hultz and sons-in-law Ronald Eason and James Muller.

A Life Celebration Service will be held at a later date. Cecil’s family would like to express their heartfelt and sincere gratitude for the compassion shown by the heros at Heather Glen of Ardenwoods and Four Seasons Hospice.

Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian is assisting the family.

Army Veteran

View current weather.

Memories Timeline

Guestbook

  1. My Dear Father ~ I was so blessed to know you, grow up with you, and have one of the most special relationships of my life! You were always there for our family with love, patience and integrity. You were the best Father any girl could ask for. I would tell you that I will always be connected to you even after you pass. I will hear you in the song of the birds, the wind through the trees, and feel you in the deep silence. We are all Spiritual beings and our love is eternal. Your loving daughter always, Regina ✨🙏✨🕊🕊🕊🕊

  2. It was such an honor to know Cecil. He displayed such kindness, and had the most gentle spirit. I have the fondest memories of his ever- present smile. Glad we now have another angel in heaven ❤️

  3. Uncle Cecil you remind me so much of my father , just a gentle kind man with an infecfious smile . I remember with fondness my trip to Florida and time spend with you and aunt Betty. Mum has told us many stories of your visit to Ireland many many years ago and how you embraced the simple life . Rest in peace and I know you will be surrounded by love ones that have departed and reunited with Aunt Betty .
    Sending all our love to Regina Linda and Russ and the rest of the family .

  4. Dear Regina, Linda, Russ & Carolyn. My Heart is so very saddened to hear about the loss of your Dear Dad! I have many fond memories of all of you growing up across the street and our Families being close friends. I hope you can find much comfort in knowing he is with Mom and the “Gang” and will be watching over you. Sending Prayers and Hugs to you with Much Love! Carolyn

  5. I feel so blessed to have met you and know you more through your beautiful daughter Regina. For years, I’ve seen photos and heard your stories. You inspired so many and your legacy will live in the gracious love you gave, the memories shared. You will be missed deeply. I’m holding your family strong in my heart and prayers for peace and comfort. Abundant love and prayers 🙏

  6. Hi Dad, (this is where you reply Hi Dear….:))
    It has taken me two weeks to be able to do this as I cannot say goodbye. I can finally tune into the Hallmark channel and pretend we are watching our movies together. I can’t begin to thank you for your unconditional love, support and leadership that Russ and I aspire to emulate. Your loving patience, strong work ethic and unwavering reliability was always magical. Your 80th BD party was a site to behold as are all the comments flooding in admiring the man you were and the life you lived. I know you’re in Mom’s loving arms that have ached for you. Regina, Russ and I were three very lucky children and adults. I also thank you for being the best grandfather to Chase and I will always treasure the mutual admiration you both shared. I hope James and Eason greeted you after Mom came and got you as I know she did. Hopefully Mike remembers the Mick Flavin melodies and you are all dancing while Uncle Ron is making sarcastic remarks like “What took you so long Cec??”
    I look so forward to the day I see you again and will be talking to you often because again, I can’t and won’t say goodbye……just like Mom never could.
    You live in my heart! And remember when you tell me you love me, I always respond “I love you MORE”!!!
    All My Love and More,
    Linda

  7. Dear Mahy Family, I had the honor of meeting your father and mother and spent time with them while they visited Texas. They were both very special and I am blessed to have met them. Your dear father will always leave an impression in my mind as a gentle and strong person, with a passion for life. Always wearing such a beautiful smile. My deepest condolences are with you as we remember your father. May God bless you and bring you peace at this time.

  8. Rest easy Uncle Cecil. You were a kind, gentle and loving man and was always so positive. The reunion in Heaven is grand that is for sure – I can hear you laughing and see your big smile. I hope you have plenty of caps to wear up there! I’ll always cherish the times we visited you and Aunt Betty in Florida. We actually just watched some home movies of one of our trips. You will be dearly missed.
    Love,
    Kathleen


Sign the Guestbook, Light a Candle