James Andrew DeLong
September 14, 1964 ~ May 13, 2009
Resided in:
Asheville, NC
Asheville – James Andrew "Andy" DeLong, loving husband, father and son, went to be with his Lord and Savior, whom he served faithfully, Wednesday, May 13, 2009.
Andy was the son of Billy Ray and Edith Morris DeLong of Asheville. He was born in Ft. Bragg, NC, and spent his childhood in Ashland, KY.
In addition to his parents, Andy is survived by his wife, Cheryl Tucker DeLong; his two sons, Joshua Andrew and Curt Nathaniel DeLong; his sisters, Cathy Gilkeson and her husband, Bob, of Asheville and Mella Trimble and her husband, Jim, of Pikeville, KY; four nieces and four nephews. He is also survived by Cheryl's parents, William Terrell and Shirley Tucker of Chapel Hill, NC, his sister-in-law, Karen Tucker Marcus and her husband, Steve, and his good friend and business partner, Jeff Palmer.
Andy was a member of Biltmore Baptist Church where he served as a Deacon and a member of the orchestra. He was a member of the Hendersonville Swing Band, the Biltmore Brass and the Walnut Cove Men's Golf Assn.
He loved Cheryl, Josh and Curt with all his heart and he was a devoted son, family man and friend to many. His exuberance for life was contagious. He was an accomplished musician and businessman. He was generous to those in need and touched many lives. He will be greatly missed.
A memorial service will be held at 11:00 am Saturday at Biltmore Baptist Church conducted by the Revs. Bruce Frank and J. Michael Brown.
The family will receive friends from 7:00 until 8:30 pm Friday at Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Exalt Music Ministry, Biltmore Baptist Church, 35 Clayton Road, Arden, NC 28704.
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Dear Cheryl and Family:
We are so sorry for your loss, Andy was such a wonderful person and I enjoyed seeing him each Sunday in the Orchestra. He was so full of like & such a joy. We will truely miss him. We will keep you and your families in our prayers. Angie Hardin, Scott & Shane Rayburn.
I am very sorry for your loss, please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Sincerly,
Jennifer McCarson
Cheryl,
I’m sorry for your loss. I prayed for you and your sons. Love, Lori
Cheryl, Josh & Kurt….our prayers are with you all. Andy will be greatly missed by all who knew him. The orchestra just won’t be the same.
Bill, Edith & the rest of Family
We are so very sorry for your loss but it helps to know that he is in heaven. Our family is praying for all of you in this time of sorrow. May God wrap his arms of love around you and help you thru this time.
Betty Hyder
Yvonne Webb
Eddie Tony Gosnell
James Paul Johnson
Dearest Cheryl, Josh, and Curt,
I can’t begin to express how sorry I am for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Much love,
Alice
Dear Cheryl, Josh, Curt, Bill, Edith and family,
We were shocked and saddened to hear of Andy’s passing. We will always treasure the many fond memories we’ve shared over the years. Andy was a good man with a kind heart, and his zest for life will be missed by all. We pray that God will hold you in His might arms during this time of loss. Please know that we love you and your family.
Dear Cheryl,
I am sad to hear about Andy. You, your boys, and extended family are in our thoughts.
With love,
Elizabeth
Dear Bill, Edith and family of Andy:
my heart goes out to all of you in this time of loss of your loved one,who left at such an unexpected moment. How deep this sorrow must be! May God strengthen you in this time of need, and embrace wife and children, and bring comfort. Only He knows the plan He has and I am thankful to know that Andy is ‘home’ with the Father. May you feel the prayers of your friends and brothers and sisters in Christ and may the fond memories you have of Andy sustain you in this time of sorrow. My deepest sympathy.
Our condolences go out the DeLong family for there loss. We have know Andy for many, many years. He was generous, kind hearted. He was one of a kind. The love for the Lord in Andy was obvious. He will be greatly missed.
Michael and Dawn Eldreth
Andy was truly unique. Not only was he one of the finest musicians I’ve ever known, but he injected his enthusiasm and cheerfulness into everyone around him. It was an honor to perform with him and to know him. God bless all of you.
Tom Donnelly, Buddy K Big Band
Andy was a fine young man and a dedicated Christian. Andy led my son to the Lord at youth camp when he, (my son) was 7 years old. He was a positive influence in many lives.
Dear Cheryl and Family,
I am so very sorry,and I am praying for The Lord’s grace and mercy to be with all of you at this difficult time in your lives.
So very sorry to hear about the loss of Andy. I went to school with him for several years and we played in the Band together at Asheville High. I also used his talent and expertise in the Real Estate business as he was an excellent realtor for my family about 4 years ago. I used to see him a lot around town and he was always smiling and funny. I have visited Biltmore Baptist before and enjoyed seeing him perform in the orchestra. We don’t always understand things here, but may it bring Peace to know that he is with the Lord. You all will be in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless!
Lisa Shope Marrow
Cheryl & Family,
I cannot begin to express how deeply saddened I was to hear of Andy’s passing. I always got a chuckle by something he would do or say while the choir & orchestra warmed up on Sunday morning. Since his trumpet section is right in front of me, it was such a delight to watch him ‘warm up’ and to see his son in the chair right beside him – it was always obvious to me how much he adored that little boy! I will truly miss seeing him ‘warming up’ this and every Sunday. His usual laughter, funloving spirit, and heart of gold will truly be missed by all! I am praying that you find comfort in knowing you will see him again. I will continue to remember you and your family in my prayers.
Dear Cheryl, Josh and Curt,
We were shocked and saddened to learn of Andy’s death. Know that your extended family are all in our prayers.
With love and sympathy,
Elizabeth, Doug, Forrest and Annesleigh
Cheryl, Josh, and Curt,
We were shocked and saddened to hear of Andy’s passing. We will always remember that laugh and the way he ‘bleacher-coached’ at the BBC basketball games. He was a fine man who loved his family dearly. We are praying for you.
Sincerely,
Joel, Laura, Drew, and Cameron Parker
Andy attended Asheville High School with my daughter. He played the trumpet in the Asheville High School band. He also played with the band in my church at Merrimon Avenue Baptist. He was helpful to us in appraising our house. Andy was a fine boy and young man whom I was proud to know, and he will be missed very much in this world.
Cheryl, Josh and Curt, Lynn and I want you to know that we are praying for God’s peace and strength to be multiplied to you during this time. Andy was a great man and a great friend. I will never forget the days at Bent Creek when we were on the praise team together – him playing the trumpet and me trying to sing! I will miss him but just for a little while. I know we’ll see each other again in heaven. I am preaching a sermon this Sunday at Mountain View about leaving a godly legacy. Andy certainly did that with his love for the Lord, love for his family, and the numerous lives he touched during his life on earth… Certainly God greeted him with words similiar to ‘Well done good and faithful servant…’
Cheryl and Family, Bill and Edith,
Our hearts are heavy with the passing of Andy. We have so many wonderful memories of him and remember that he was one of the first to befriend us when we started attending West Asheville Assembly (now Crossroads Assembly), many years ago. His laughter and joy with life will truly be remembered. We pray that God will comfort you with His grace and love in the coming days.
Cheryl and Family,
I was so saddened to hear about Andy’s passing yesterday. His smiles and sense of humor will be so missed in our music ministry at church. You are in mine and Gary’s thoughts and prayers. Please feel free to let us know if we can help you in any way.
Love,
Becky Bay
Dearest Cousin’s
We are so very sorry to hear of the loss of our cousin, Andy. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you and God will give you strength.
All our love,
The Cousins
Jenny
Nita
Kay
Wesley
Toni
Although I spoke to Andy only a few times, this has been very distressing and such a shock to me. Working on the Tech Team at BBC gave me the opportunity to ‘focus’ in on Andy many times with the video camera while he was playing his trumpet! Being a part of the Exalt choir allowed me to worship Christ with Andy. I will never forget his constant smiles and great sense of humor as he sat beside Doug, he close friend in the orchestra. Me heart goes out to Cheryl and the boys. I am only a year older than Andy was and I have two sons. It has really made me think this week. Life is short no matter how long God gives us on Earth and we need to spend time loving those we care the most about. I know Andy did this! He was a good example as he showed his love for Christ in all that he did. I am not sure what God’s big plan is but trust that He is in control and loves us all dearly. I envy Andy as he is standing with Christ physically now. I will truly miss seeing him at Biltmore but know one day we will see him again. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family. May God comfort and heal the pain you feel in the days ahead. He loves you and is with you through this. Blessings, Greg
Cheryl, We are very saddened to hear about Andy. Our prayers are with you and your family. He was a wonderful person and will be missed by many.
You will be missed by so many, yet greeted so lovingly by our god in heaven. My family will pray for the DeLong family.
We will be praying for you Cheryl and we are available any time day or night. You are loved by so many.We rejoice in Andy’s being home but we also deeply sorrow with you.
16 For the Lord Himself will descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of an archangel, and with the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first. 17 Then we who are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And thus we shall always be with the Lord. 18 Therefore comfort one another with these words.
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.
Bill,Edie, Andy’s wife and children, My heart is broken for you in your loss of your most precious loved one.
I remember Andy from our earliest days at Crossroads as being very personable and outgoing – a very fine young man!
I pray God’s peace and comfort will surround you during this most difficult time.
Dear Cheryl and boys,
May the good Lord hold you in His mighty and strong arms during the loss of your husband and father. Even though Andy is with God and not here, he will always be with you through memories and love that he shared with all of you. He will be missed a great deal. God bless all of you. Sincerely, Gerry and Marty
Bill, Edith, Cheryl & Family. Our thoughts, prayers and heart go out to you all at this time. Andy will always be remembered by Us and our family as a man of God, a man with amazing character, and a man of integrity. We miss him already. Praise be to God that one day we will ALL be together in heaven and MAN the JAM session well have there. With All our love. Darrel & Stephanie Prescott (Samara)
We first met Andy when he sold our home of 24 yrs. Then we joined his church. We have been friends for the past 7 yrs.We are in the choir and we chatted and joked around with Andy every week. He had a wonderful spirit! We love him and will miss him very much. He was a man that his family can be proud of. We pray that god will Bless the family and give them Peace.
Cheryl: We are so sorry for your loss. We thought so much of Andy and loved to hear him play that horn!! May God be with you and the boys as you travel this road. Diane & Randy Foote, BBC
I am so saddened to hear of Andy’s passing. Andy and I attended high school together and I am proud to say he was my friend. This is what I remember the most: Andy always had the ability to light up a room and make everyone around him laugh and smile. He just had that gift and I know he touched so many lives. I also admired his deep commitment to his faith. Several years ago he did an appraisal of my home. It was the last time I saw him and he had not changed in the least. Andy was so very thoughtful, and possessed a beautiful soul. My thoughts and prayers are with the family during this difficult time. I know there is one more beautiful soul in heaven.
Dear Cheryl, Edith, Bill,Josh and Curt. Andy always was funny had a good sense of humor but loved God with his heart. At church we would talk about old times. Im glad we had this last year together to share as friends. My prayers is with you all
Bill, Edie and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. We always admired Andy for his love of his family and the energetic and ethical business man he was. He will be missed in this world, but his music will be enjoyed in heaven. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
John and Maggie
I went to Asheville High School with Andy, and I always remember his cheerful smile and great laugh.
I’m so sorry for your loss…He was a special member of the AHS Class of 1982.
Susan Thurman Houchin
Dear Cheryl, Josh, and Curt,
We are so saddened about your loss. We are keeping you and all your family in our constant thoughts and prayers.
With love and sympathy,
Brian and Cathy Liley
Dear DeLong Family,
I have so many fond memories of each of you. Growing up with you in my life changed me to be a better person. Even though Andy and I lost contact through the years, he was one of those people you always know and love, so I know the lose you are feeling is huge and I am so very sorry you must endure it. My heart is heavy for you and I will continue to keep you in my prayers.
All my love and support,
Nancy Smith
Cheryl,
I shocked to learn about Andy’s passing. I ran into Catherine Lawrence tonight and she told me about him. God bless you and your boys. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
I remember Andy from high school. I will never forget the day in Lynn Self’s Algebra II class in 1980 when Andy climbed out the window of the class and hung off the side of the school building. He was a good person.
Bill, Edith, Cathy and family,
We were shocked and sadden to hear of Andy’s passing. You are in our prayers!
Don and Tammy
Dear Bill, Edith, Cheryl and sons,
I knew Andy from our high school youth group years at church. Andy was such a spirited leader, full of charisma and life at 18! I have been so happy to read the other memories that tell of his love for God and family as an adult. My heart is heavy for each of you, and I’ll be praying for your peace and clarity of thought during this difficult time.
Andy was such a wonderful person. Last week when he left the shop after much kidding of Tammy and myself about the tornados and storms. He came over to me and put his arm around me and said well Martha, and I hugged him and said, see ya Andy. I am glad God gave us that moment to say goodby. Not knowing that would be the last time we would see each other. He told Tammy and I, see you in Kansas. This was tipical Andy. Always a great sense of humor. There was this wonderful young man that God had his hand on from the moment he was created, a good son, good husband and father, brother and our friend, Always everyone’s friend. I feel so blessed to have known him. May the Lord watch over all of you in your grief. Find comfort in the way Andy lived his life. Martha Reece
We cannot imagine the pain that is felt by his wife sons and parents and sisters.All his friends will remember him as a great man of God.We can’t help but to remember the fun our children all had together.As a young man in the youth group, the fun they had at our home. We will remember Andy also as someone who enjoyed making others laugh and loved playing his
trumpet. We will continue to pray for those he left behind. All those who love him. Our special love to you all.(I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith. Henceforth there is laid up for me a crown of righteousness which the Lord, the righteous judge shall give me at that day and not to me only but unto all them also that love His appearing.)We will see Andy again at that day when Our Lord and Savior Jesus shall appear.
My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you over the loss of Andy. He was such a wonderful person, full of laughter and so sweet. We knew each other from Crossroads and from Asheville High. He was a very special friend. I pray that God sends His peace and His grace to help ease your pain. I am so sorry for your loss and will continue to keep your family in my prayers.
Karen Sawyer Buckner
Andy was a fine man, loved by all who knew him and he will surely be missed. May God lead the family through this darkest of time, comfort all of you and dry your tears. Please take solace in knowing that Andy is now sitting by the throne of God in heaven.
We cannot imagine the pain that is felt by his wife sons and parents and sisters.All his friends will remember him as a great man of God.We can’t help but to remember the fun our children all had together.As a young man in the youth group, the fun they had at our home. We will remember Andy also as someone who enjoyed making others laugh and loved playing his
trumpet. We will continue to pray for those he left behind. All those who love him. Our special love to you all.(I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith. Henceforth there is laid up for me a crown of righteousness which the Lord, the righteous judge shall give me at that day and not to me only but unto all them also that love His appearing.)We will see Andy again at that day when Our Lord and Savior Jesus shall appear.
We first met Andy at West Asheville Assembly of God, now Crossroads and then at Biltmore Baptist. As a young man he was always so courteous, kind with a beautiful smile. He remained the same throughout the years that we have known him. We know he loved the Lord, his family, his church family. We extend our deepest symapathies to all the family. We will be praying for you during this most difficult time.
Sorry for your loss,He left such a wonderful legacy. I feel I knew him
through Mella. She loved him and was so very proud that Andy was
her little brother. My prayers are with you all. Gwen Daniels
Andy was so funny and smart and talented. As a teenager, I looked up to him, and I always appreciated the way he made me feel like part of the gang rather than a young tag-along. I’ll never forget the 16th birthday lunch he arranged for me. I’m so sorry he’s gone, and for your family’s loss.
I’m one of Andy’s nieces…he will be missed by all of us. But just would like to share a good memory -he hit me in the head with a firecracker when I was a little girl. Singed my hair, scared the pee out of me, and he thought it was hilarious. 🙂 Love you, Uncle Andy and hope you and Big Granny are playing a duet in God’s big band.
What a wonderful musician. I am sure he will be missed here and welcomed into God’s kingdom.
i REMEMBER
I was another of Andy’s classmates at Asheville High. It has been 27 years since I have seen him, but his smile is firmly etched in my memory as if it was yesterday. I am sorry for the family’s great loss. I am glad that he lives on in all of us.
Cheryl and children, Edith and Bill, Cathy and Mella – Dan and I are so sorry at the sudden loss of Andy. I can’t imagine your pain but I do know the Father is touched by your grief and will walk with you as you face the days ahead without Andy. We love each of you and our prayers are with you.
I knew Andy from our youth group days back at West Asheville Assembly of God. Andy was one of my first friends in youth group back in 1980. He encouraged me to join the Psalms of Praise band and always made me feel welcome as a brand new Christian and youth group member. I always LOVED his sense of humor and his high energy enthusiasm. He was a natural leader and a good friend. I feel such sadness for your loss. May the Lord be ever present and give you peace during this very difficult time. My prayers are with you all.
It was only Saturday that we shared two hours of Swing Band rehearsal – you sounded great – I’ll miss hearing your wonderful sound. We met in the Buddy K Band when Bill (‘buddy’) was still with us. Say hello to him for me. May God Bless You and Keep You in His Holy Brass Section – you definately qualify, MAN!
Maurice
Dear Cathy, Bob, Torrie, Jonah and Will: My deepest condolences to your entire family. I did not know Andy, but from hearing about him and reading the guestbook, he was a most wonderful person. My prayers will be with you as you face the difficult days ahead. I love you all.
May God Give You Strength During This Difficult Time. ‘For This God Is Our God For Ever And Ever: He Will Be Our Guide Even Unto Death’ Psalm 48:14
I remember a couple of years being in band with Andy at AHS and remember being good friends with his sister, Cathy, in HS. He was a good role model for us and I always admired his strength and desire to do what was good and right…My heart and prayers go out to his family…
In His love, Lynn
My love to all of the DeLong Family: Words fail me. Andy was my nephew who I dearly loved. I have many memories of him and it has been way too many years since I last saw him, Cathy, Mella, Edith and Bill. I was looking forward to seeing him and his family this summer. I’ve read the guestbook entries and it’s no surprise to see how he grew into such a respected and loved young man, he was always very special. I can only imagine the homecoming our Lord had for him as he entered His presence. My prayer is for the peace that passes understanding for all who knew and loved him. With Love, Andy, ’til we meet again on that beautiful shore…..Aunt Linda
Andy taught the first music lesson I ever had when I was 12, in 1989. I wanted to play drums but my band director at AC Reynolds made me play trumpet. Andy worked with my mother Teresa in the late 80’s and early 90’s at Remax in Biltmore and he offered to teach me private trumpet lessons. He was gentle, patient, and kind and actually got me to like playing the trumpet. I did not really keep in touch with Andy, but my close friends have hired him to list houses, and I have always heard wonderful things about him. I heard of Andy’s passing all the way in Los Angeles, where I am a music performer to this day. I reflected on the impact he had on my life and career. Although it was a brief moment early in my life, I found that it’s amazing what people can do for other people. Andy was simply giving back and paying forward, something he did unconditionally. My deepest sympathy to his family and friends. May you find comfort in his peace, and know that he will always be making music in your hearts.
BILL, EDITH & FAMILY, OUR HEART GOES OUT TO YOU ALL. WE FEEL HONORED TO HAVE KNOWN ANDY. IF ANYONE EVER SPOKE WITH HIM IT WAS OBVIOUS HIS LOVE OF GOD AND HIS FAMILY. IT WAS SUCH A PLEASURE TO DO BUSINESS WITH SUCH AN ETHICAL AND HONEST MAN. WE PRAY THAT GOD WILL GIVE YOU THE STRENGTH AND COMFORT TO HOLD ON TILL YOU SEE HIM AGAIN, WHAT A REUNION THAT WILL BE. GOD’S LOVE AND GRACE MIKE & HAZEL
What a comfort to know that Andy is with his Lord and Savior. I will miss our talks. He was so kind and generous to me. Know that he loved his family.
Cheryl, Josh and Curt – We are so sadden by the sudden loss of our good friend and ‘man in Asheville’. Without Andy there would be no Asheville for us. Living in England, Andy made it all so simple for us. His generous spirit and kindness made us feel right at home in Asheville. We so enjoyed our time with him and discovering the many linkages that we had in our life from Ashland to the University of Kentucky. Thank you for selflessly sharing him with us at odd times on our many house-hunting trips to Asheville. You are in our thoughts. Mary and John
It was only a few months ago that Andy dedicated his days to assisting in the search for the perfect home for my family. He was the best at his profession and quicky became a friend to my family. We joked about the closets (and the corner of the closet I was giving to my husband if he was lucky). He emininated the love for his family and his dad. He told us of his golf playing with his dad and his trips as well as his love for music. He made us feel at home in a strange place (we are from NY). From his tiredless effort, we have a beautiful home for our family. We have much to thank him for. I am very sorry for your great loss.
Kindly,
Louise Bijesse
To Bill and Edith and the DeLong family,
You have my prayers and intercession for your precious family. There are so many of us who cherish the memories of Andy playing the trumpet at West Asheville and his grin, so like his father’s. May the Holy Spirit be the Comforter you all need at this time. Know you are surrounded by His love and Our love at this time.
Janie Yow Cox
Cheryl and family: I knew Andy from being in the choir and he came to my house once when I was thinking of selling. He was such a fine young man and he walked the walk. I always enjoyed watching him play in the orchestra and he was a real comedian at the Senior Citizens Valentine banquets.
I was so shocked and sorry to hear of his passing.
I pray God will give you and your children strength to face the difficult days ahead.
Please know you are in my prayers.
Betty Ponder
Dear Cheryl,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I can only imagine how you feel. If you need anything your work family is here for you.
Much love,
Crista Wilson
Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.
Matthew 5:4
I had the pleasure of working with Andy years ago when I was with Re/Max Advantage Realty.
He was always such a positive and fun person. I feel grateful to have known him.
My heart goes out to his wife and sons and family. I cannot imagine your pain and grief with his loss. I hope that knowing that he is at the feet of Jesus is a comfort in this time.
Sincerely,
Merit Wolff
Dear Cheryl and family,
I was saddened to learn of Andy’s passing as I read this morning’s paper. May your faith sustain you during this difficult time, and may God’s peace and comfort strengthen your family. As Curt’s former teacher, I will hold him, along with the rest of your family, in my thoughts and prayers.
I am so sorry to hear of Andy’s passing. We haven’t sen each othe since Asheville High. May God bless Cheryl and the children.
I opened the Ashland Daily today to see that Andy had passed away. Such a great loss for such a wonderful family. So many memories growing up across the street from the DeLong Family. I can still see a picture of Andy laughing so big with his trumpet in his hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
I’m so sorry to hear about his death. I’ll pray for peace in your hearts for his family and close friends.
We love you so much and you will be dearly missed. I know you are in a better place.
I am shocked and saddened to hear of Andy’s passing.
We met years ago playing together as ‘ringers’ in the UNCA jazz band.Later we attened church together and played some together there.
Andy was an excellent trumpet player but more importantly a very good man.
No matter how painful it is to lose him, we must all remember the purpose of all our lives here is to do what Andy did; choose Christ and encourage others to do the same.
I am praying for Cheryl and the family.
21 His lord said unto him, Well done, thou good and faithful servant: thou hast been faithful over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou into the joy of thy lord
Matt 25:21 (KJV)
My dearest Edith, Bill and family, We are still in shock.
I know the pain you feel cannot be put into words.. We are all just SO sorry.
You all have been through SO much- now this.
Remember Edith? we used to sit at Bob Ledford’s and tell stories about our kids when they were little? Andy has always been a hoot! I’ll always remember those stories.. and look what a wonderful man he became.
Bill- my heart aches for you- I know he was your ‘Buddy’ as well as a son.
Heaven is a funnier place to be today with Andy there, and he and Granny are hugging and having a grand time!
All the pain is left here, we are just so sorry.
Andy was a wonderful son, We know you will be strong for Cheryl and those 2 precious boys. You know he is with The Lord now – What a wonderful thing. He LIVED ready to go, while living each day to the fullest. What a special person! I know that brings you some peace…
Our hearts are heavy for all of you. May God Bless each of you and be with you. For Andy will ALWAYS be missed, here on earth. He will always be in our hearts.
He loved The Lord, his family, his home, his church, music, his friends and co-workers. His priorities were always right.
Andy was an amazing person. What a gift he was to SO many.
All our love and thoughts are with you… You know I’m only a phone call away Edith.
Much love from us all- Steve and Patty Jarrett, Lisa, Bobby and Glenna
We are so sad to hear the news of Andy’s passing. Know that we are keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Dear DeLong Family,
I was so sad to hear about Andy. He was such a special person. I will always remember his great smile, laughter and sweet spirit. What a wonderful legacy he has left for his family. Gold Bless and keep you during this difficult time. ‘Class of ’82 AHS’
How I will miss sitting across from Andy at the Hendersonville Swing Band rehearsals. He was such a joy to be around. I loved to hear him play that trumpet. At a recent concert, he played a solo in Sugar Blues that I will never forget. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Marilyn Campbell
Dear Cheryl and Family,
Mark & I just heard about our dear friend & fellow REALTOR Andy DeLong’s sudden passing. We are saddened & in shock. Andy was a wonderful person our hearts & thoughts go out to you and your family. He will definitely be missed. He led his life as a true example of a Christian that loved God & his family.His picture should appear where a true Christian role model is defined. We will miss our dear friend & his wonderful humor.
a fine person,full of life. a great musician,raconteur,it was a
pleasure to be associated with him.Blow Gabriel! ! !
Larry
Sorry for your family’s lost. I will keep the family in pray for strength, comfort and peace.
Cheryl, I am so sorry for the hurt and saddness in your life right now. I sing in the BB Choir. Please know that there is saddness in my heart for the pain you are feeling. I am praying for strength from God, for you and your boys. God surround this family with Your Love, Comfort and Peace. Hold them tightly.
Donna Cauble
Our thoughts and prayers are with the DeLongs and all the friends and co-workers he leaves behind. The example he set by the way he lived his life did, and forever more will have an impact on me.
To Andy’s Family & Friends, How appropiate,that today as family and friends gather this was the daily devotional from experiencing God day by day,
FRIDAY, MAY 15, 2009
Iron Sharpens Iron
As iron sharpens iron, So a man sharpens the countenance of his friend. (Proverbs 27:17)
The Christian life is a pilgrimage. At times the road is difficult, and we get lonely. Sometimes we may become discouraged and consider abandoning the journey. It is at such times that God will place a friend alongside us. One of God’s most precious gifts to us is friends who encourage us and lovingly challenge us to “keep going.” According to Scripture, a friend is one who challenges you to become all that God intends. Jonathan could have succeeded his father to become the next king of Israel. But he loved his friend David, and he encouraged him to follow God’s will, even though it meant Jonathan would forfeit his own claim to the throne (1 Sam. 19:1–7). The mark of biblical friends is that their friendship draws you closer to Christ. They “sharpen” you and motivate you to do what is right. True friends tell you the truth and even risk hurting your feelings because they love you and have your best interests at heart (Prov. 27:6). Be careful in your choice of friends! Jesus chose His_closest friends wisely. He did not look for perfect friends, but friends whose hearts were set to follow God. It is equally important to examine the kind of friend you are to others. As a friend, it is your duty to put the needs of others first (Prov. 17:17). Strive to find godly friends who will challenge you to become the person God desires. When you have found them, be receptive to the way God uses them to help you become spiritually mature. Strive also to be the kind of friend that helps others become more like Christ.ANDY WAS SUCH A FRIEND AS THIS!
Dear DeLong Family,
My most heartfelt condolences go out to your family in this time of great sorrow. Andy was one of the first people I met here in Asheville when he assisted me in the purchase of my home. He went out of his way to befriend me. He was so kind and friendly and patient. He will really be missed.
Sincerely,
Veronica K. Neisser
Grace & Peace to Andy’s family and friends. Andy & I had a co-list (real estate) on Mills Gap Road when Andy started in real estate with Remax. We had an Open House…and really had good conversation during that time…I also held a special regard for Andy and knew he would do well. Andy was one of a kind people you meet in life. Blessing to all of you. So sorry for your loss. Kindest rregards, Pat Redmond
My prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.
Cheryl,Josh,Curt and Family
We were so saddened to hear about Andy’s passing. Our hearts are broken for your loss. What a honor and blessing to call Andy a friend.
We have such fond memories of our
weekend trip to Pigeon Forge with you all. Our love,prayers and support are with you all during this time and for the days ahead. May God bless you and give you strength for this journey.
I remember Andy fondly from band and from classes at AHS. I can stil hear Mrs. Haith say ‘Mr. De-Long…’ I’m so sorry for your family’s loss, and my thoughts and prayers go out to all his family and friends.
I’m so very saddened to hear about Andy. I was in his graduating class at AHS. He was always so funny & quick to laugh. My heart goes out to the family.
I was so saddened to see Andy’s obituary in today’s paper. Obviously I am not someone who was close to Andy; however, I will never forget how helpful and patient he was as our realtor when we moved to Asheville in 1993. Please accept my sincere condolences to Andy’s family and friends. I will certainly never forget his kindness.
Dear Cheryl and boys,
We were so shocked and saddened by the news of Andy’s passing. We are out of town right now and will not be able to get back in time for Andy’s service. We are so sorry to not be able to be there. Andy was such a wonderful, giving person and we will miss him more than we can express. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. We pray for God’s great comfort to envelope you all in this terrible time of shock and grief.
In Christ,
Henry and Trudy Coble
Dear Cheryl, Curt, & Josh,
My heart is broken for you. Sudden loss is so difficult to digest and understand. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you now and in the days ahead. The missing will be the hardest, but have faith that joy will come again. Curt holds a special place in my heart and I am blessed to have been his teacher at church for almost 2 years. During that time, I was able to get to know Andy and Cheryl and see the clear and evident love they have for their family. May God continue to hold all of you in the palm of His hands and surround you with his love and presence.
Dear DeLong Family,
Harrison and I were so sorry to hear of Andy’s passing. He was a great friend to me through high school, and we enjoyed many great times in the AHS band and other interests. He touched so many people through music, but it was the way he lived his life that was his real testimony. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all for comfort, healing, and grace to face the road ahead. As Psalm 27:13 states, ‘What would have become of me, unless I had believed to see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living.’ Peace be with you all.
Andy was a great guy. My heart goes out to you all.
Although I hadn’t seen him since high school, I know Andy’s wonderful laugh and smile will be missed by many. Please know that your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
AHS Class of ’82
Dear Cheryl, I can scarcely imagine what you are going through right now, but rest assured that my thoughts and prayers are truly with you. Andy was such an incredibly talented musician, and he always made the BuddyK Band sound better whenever he played with us. Sincerely, Colene
Words cannot express the sadness and loss that we feel.He was a very special and loving man. You could tell by the way he worshipped that he truly loved the Lord. We have many fond memories of him.Please know that your church family will love and support your whole family during this time. Our prayers are for your strength. We love all of you. The Larry Hughes family
My heart goes out to you Cheryl, Josh, Curt, and the rest of Andy’s family. Andy was a great Christian man who I never saw without a smile on his face, a joke or two, and a genuine heart of gold! Andy and his God-given musical talent will be greatly missed. My prayers and thoughts are with you Cheryl, Josh, and Curt! *Psalms 46:1*
– Karan Orr (Kathy’s sister/ Larry’s daughter)
Andy was one of my first & favorite clients when I opened my appraisal business in 1998. He was always so kind and worked with such great integrity.
I will be forever grateful to him for helping grow my business with the referrals he sent to me.
The world has lost a dear, kind person. I am so sorry for your loss.
Bill, Edith & Family,
Words cannot express our sorrow for you right now. We will be lifting all of you up in prayer. If we can help in any way, please let us know.
Seth & Stephanie Whitaker
I am sorry to hear the sad news about Andy. His smiling face brightened up Asheville High.
Dear Cheryl, Curt and Josh,
I am sorry to hear of the passing of your husband and father. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to all of you. Curt would always have a huge smile on his face when Andy would pick him up from school. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Cheryl & family,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this most difficult time. Please know that your Church family stands behind you and we will be lifting you, Josh, and Curt up in our prayers on a continual basis. Our prayer is that God will fill you with the peace that surpasses all understanding that is promised in the Book of Phillipians.
Andy was a tremendous example to all men and ladies alike as to how we are to live this Christian life. His smiles and laughs were so contagious. We consider it an honor to have known such a good and Godly man.
As you go forward, please know that your church family is here for you so don’t hesitate to call on us as needs arise. That is what a church family is for. We love you guys. Take care and God Bless.
We are praying for the family.
Andy and I were great friends during our late teens and early 20’s.I have many great memories of him including our trip to Florida and his great idea of getting in shape by jogging through West Asheville(I may have made it twice before giving up…I couldn’t hang with him).
Even though we didn’t get to stay in touch much over the years, I will always remember the times God allowed us to have. But most of all I will remember what a great person he was.
I will keep your family in my prayers. I believe we will all be united with Andy very soon.
Dear Cheryl and boys,
George and I are so sorry to hear about Andy. As I sit in the choir each Sunday, I always see Andy playing in the orchestra. I will sure miss seeing him in that seat. He was such a kind man and always had a smile for everyone. We will miss him dearly. We pray the Lord will comfort, strengthen you and give you peace during this difficult time. With love and prayers, George and Donna Renfro
To the family,
I will pray in earnest for you. Andy was a wonderful person and business colleague. I know in my heart he is watching over you from above. My thoughts and prayers are for you.
My sincere sympathy for the DeLong family. I played in the UNCA Jazz Band with Andy for many years and will always remember his energy and enthusiasm for great music and his friendliness. My prayers are with you all.
DeLong Family:
Your entire family is in our thoughts during this very difficult time. Please let us know if there is anything we can do.
Margo, Brad and Emma Searson
My family was totally shocked and dismayed to hear of Andy’s passing. My brother James Hungerford (who played the trumpet with him and also attends the same church) had introduced him to me when I was thinking about selling/buying property in the area. Andy was such a fun, wonderful and caring person. God bless and take care of you and your loved ones.
Bill,Edith,Cheryl & Family,We were saddened when we learned of Andy’s passing. He will be greatly missed.Our prayers are with you all that in that midnight hour that our heavenly father will give you peace that only he can give. And that you will feel the love and prayers being extended to each of you by friends and loved ones. We love your family very much. Pam & Keith Stewart,Kelly Justice, and Karen Lillie.
Our prayers go out to you and your boys,may the hope and peace of Jesus be your strength right now through this tough time.What a joy it was to see Andys contagious smile, he will be missed!My favorite verse-Isaiah40:31-But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.
So Sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.Love, Clara Johnson,Daryl & Tabitha Hensley.
To the Delong Family – My thoughts and prayers are with you all. It was always a pleasure to work with Andy and he will be greatly missed by everyone here at Goosmann Rose.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I enjoyed working with Andy for many years and he will be greatly missed by everyone at Goosmann Rose. May God bless you and comfort you in the days ahead.
We want to let you and your family know that we were very sorry, but yet happy that the Lord took Andy home to be with him. It was such a shock after Michael talked to Andy and I talked to you about the same time on Tuesday night. Andy is now in Heaven with Michael’s mother singing praises unto the Lord. Mike’s mother Dorsey Cowan had known Andy for years and had worked with him at Dunhams Music House. We know that this will be a very big adjustment for you and the boys and we will be praying for the Lord to comfort and see you’ll through everything you will have to endure and ease your pain. One hope you have is knowing that you will be seeing him in Heaven and it might not be long until our Lord Jesus comes back to get all of us. If there is anything at all we can do for you and your family please don’t hesitate to call on us. We love you’ll and you’ll will be in our thoughts and prayers in the coming days.
We are friends of Mella and Jimmy’s. After reading about Andy, we feel cheated we never got to know him….. We are sure we would have loved him and his family as we do the Trimble Family.
May God Comfort you as only HE can.
Sending our love and sympathy.
John and Sue Yagodich
Pikeville, Ky.
Delong Family,
Know that we love you and are praying for Gods Grace for you.
Cheryl,
I am so distraught over Andy’s passing. I played in the orchestra with both of you. Andy was a tremendous musician. I was in awe of his ability. My prayers and thoughts are with you and the whole family. God bless all of you.
I am so sorry to hear about Andy’s Passing. I was a classmate of his at AHS and still remember his smile, quick wit, and talent as a musician. He touched many folks. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
I am saddened by the untimely passing of Andy – timely to God, of course, but so untimely to me. Andy was a great colleague and is greatly missed. My deep sympathy goes out to his family and to all others who suffer in this loss. I will forever appreciate his kindness to me and to my family just a few years ago when my beloved sister and fellow Realtor, Vicky Graham, died. His sympathy and support at that difficult time reflect just the kind of man that Andy was.
DeLong Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Brittany and Josh have gone to school together since the Acadamy of Asheville. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless and keep you now in your time of need. If we can do anything at all, please let us know.
Susannah Francis and Brittany Rothrock
I was only small when Andy was a friend to our family. He was always smiling-always laughing and always kind to everyone. I will always remember him that way. Thank you for sharing your life with this world and I know you will look over your family from Heaven. I know your children will be as wonderful as you were to this world.
Mrs. Cheryl DeLong & family,
We were shocked to hear about Andy.
May God’s grace give you strength and comfort in the days ahead. I have had several real estate deals with Andy over the years and he was always a pleasure to work with. My husband & son met him while doing the plumbing work for your new home. You and your family will be in our prayers.
Carol Clevenger, Express Real Estate
Mitch & Clayton Clevenger, Clevenger & Son Plumbing
My heart goes out to you all! I was a classmate of Andy’s at AHS and just recently was so excited to have reconnected with him on Facebook. I am so sorry for your loss, but rejoicing in the knowledge that he is home and that God will carry you thru this sad time. God bless you all.
Cheryl, We were so saddened to read about Andy’s passing. What a wonderful family man he was. A fine man. He helped us as realtor on numerous occasions, but then became a very good friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the boys.
Mary and Jim Orr
Although many years have passed, my memories of Andy are very fond. I always knew that Andy would flourish in all aspects of life and faith. God bless. Patty Horton Osborne.
Cheryl, Josh and Curt,
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Andy was among the first we met in Asheville when we moved here and he sold us our home on Pheasant Drive. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God comfort you during this difficult time and give you grace that only He can provide.
All our love, Ken and Marylou
May God’s healing, comforting hand be upon you as you mourn the loss of Andy. I was a band-mate of his at AHS. What a testimony he has left for us all.
Andy was a wonderful friend. I will always admire his true gift of music and sense of humor. He will be greatly missed by many who he touched in life. Much love to his family now and always.
Dear Bill and Edith:
We attended the same church together when I was a child and you were among my parents best friends growing up. Your great faith has always had a positive influence on me and I know it will sustain you. Just remember that we have a great God who forever conquered death for His children and that nothing can seperate us from His love.
But I do not want you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning those who have fallen asleep, lest you sorrow as others who have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with Him those who sleep in Jesus. For this we say to you by the word of the Lord, that we who are alive and remain until the coming of the Lord will by no means precede those who are asleep. For the Lord Himself will descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of an archangel, and with the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first. Then we who are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And thus we shall always be with the Lord. Therefore comfort one another with these words. (1 Thessalonians 4:13-18)
Cheryl and boys,
It is difficult to conceive what all you are going through right now. Just know that many, many people are praying for you and holding you close to our hearts and thoughts.
In difficult times I have faced, there have been moments when I just couldn’t even pray. And that is okay. We will cover you now with our prayers…of special angels around, comfort, rest, peace and much more.
Let the Lord hold you. Be still and know that He is God. Always.
Also, please know that the staff and physicians of Regional Allergy all send our deepest sympathy, thoughts, and prayers. You guys are very special to us all.
Take care of yourselves and of each other.
Love,
Janice, Ben and Gabe Bryson
The Delong Family,
We are so sorry to hear the news of your loss. Know that all our prayers are with you in your time of need. He will be truly missed.
Sincerly,
Raymond Cagle and
The Dojoku Family.
To All the DeLong Family, I was shocked and saddened to hear of Andy’s sudden passing. I never saw him without a smile on his face. He was younger than me, and while he was in our youth group at West Asheville Assembly, I never really got to know him well. What a great testimony, to read of all the lives he touched, what a great Christian man he grew up to be. Makes me sad I didn’t know him better. Cheryl, even though we’ve never met, I will continue to hold you and your boys in my prayers. What a great loss to us, what a wonderful celebration Jesus and Andy are having in heaven!
Andy was one that I always looked forward to seeing. No matter what was happening in the world and life, Andy could put a smile on my face. Over the past 20 years, I have watched Andy fall in love, stay in love and add more love to his family with each child. He was always a proud father and husband and never tired of saying what a lucky man he was. I will miss him, his smile, his enthusiasm and clever humor. I am conforted as many others are in the fact that Andy loved God and his Christianity was a testimony to us all. Although joyful in heaven, here he is very missed.
Twenty years ago I was honored with the pleasure of meeting and working with Andy. He could always find sunshine on a dark day; reason in an unreasonable situation and morals in a world that seemed to be without them. I will always remember his laughter, his love for God and music. We should all strive to be the fine upstanding person that was Andy Delong. His family are in our prayers.
My sincerest sympathy for your loss.
Paula W. Smith, Immanuel Baptist Church
He found me a house and he gained my admiration and respect in the process. I have recommended many to use his services because I thought so highly of him. I have also called him for advice over the years and he was always there to help.
He was an exceptional human being, and I am grateful I had the gift of knowing him.
May God’s blessings and love be with you during this time of sorrow.
With our deepest sympathy for you loss,
Nancy Register
Dan and Abi Bailey
Bill, Edie, & Family
Words can not express the ‘Love’ I feel for you at this sad time in your lives. I feel you are as close to me as a member of my family. Our families have many happy memories of each other during the last 30 plus years & Andy was a big part of them. I will never forget our golf trip to Myrtle Beach or the church picnic when he portrayed the little boy ‘Bobby’.
He will surely be missed.
We did ot know Andy, but yet, we came to know him quiet well. We witnessed how he loved his God and Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. We witnessed his service in the name of Jesus through his daily life and his participation in the Exalt Orchestra at Biltmore Baptist Church. Yes, we knew Andy and came to love him as we walked with him in his sort life on this Earth that our God has given us. This Earth is now a better place because Andy DeLong has passed through it. And now he is at Home.
We love you so much.
Cheryl, Judd and I are so saddened and shocked by your terrible loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Andy took such complete joy in his life then passed his delight and wonderment to all that he touched.
Judd and Carolyn Richardson
I am so sorry and saddened to hear of Andy’s passing. I enjoyed working with Andy at RE/MAX for a few years and he was always a joy to be around. My thoughts and prayers are with all of the family
To Andy’s family and friends:
As a member of the choir @ Biltmore Baptist Church, I wanted to tell you what an humbling honor it was to be able to participate in the celebration of Andy’s life.
I did not know Andy personally, but the thing I remember most about him was his smile — it simply and splendidly lit up the room.
God’s greatest comfort to each of you during this time of grieving. May Andy’s smile soon become yours.
Cheryl,
Words are simply inadequate at times such as these to share ones thoughts and prayers. Kim, Cole and I were away on vacation and learned of Andy’s passing via email. I can not begin to explain how his passing changed the course of our thoughts and prayers.
What is our loss on earth is God’s gift in heaven. What an addition to the heavenly orchestra! I can think of many fond remembrances of Andy but a few stand out. Drinking iced tea and laughing our heads off while looking at houses and then his seriousness on the golf course.
But what will always stand out the most will be his zeal, passion and service to his Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.
Andy was the first person who truly welcomed us as friends to Asheville over four years ago. His kindness and helpfulness made our transition an easy one.
Please know that you are loved, will be prayed for and over continually and we are here whenever you need us.
Bless you
Cheryl: Our sincerest condolences in your time of grief. You and the boys are in our prayers.
Clara and Virgil Stephens
To All of the Family:
Roger and I were shocked to learn of Andy’s death just a few minutes ago. We are so sorry for your loss. Andy was a kind, loving, compassionate individual, who loved the Lord. We will miss him; both personally and professionally. You are in our prayers.
Cheryl,
I worked with Andy at Re/Max in Asheville for 3 yrs (1999-2002). I hope you remember me. I was shocked to hear about Andy. He was a wonderful man, so funny and full of life. I hope you and your family will find comfort through your faith. There is no doubt that Andy is with our heavenly father now. Please accept my deepest and heartfelt sympathy.
Sincerely,
Teresa
To Andy’s family, I was the Board Coordinator for the Asheville Board of REALTORS for 3 years up to 2005, I thought Andy was a wonderful man…he didn’t hide his believes to be successful, I believe it was his conviction in what he believed that made him successful. I enjoyed knowing him and I pray our Father will give you peace in this time of loss.
Dear Cheryl, Josh and Curt,
Love and prayers for the Lord’s tender mercies and care for you and the family. The wound is deep and we prayer for the best heart care for each of you.
What a special ‘boy’, that Andy!! Always a twinkle in his eye and a great laugh, what a special gift. We echo all the sentiments voiced in the guestbook. Andy exemplified the best of Christian character. Genuine, true, loving and kind are just a few of the adjectives that describe him. Again, we pray that the Lord’s special blanket of love and protection and provision over you all. Our hearts and prayers and any assistance we can provide are with you.
Love
I shared on Andy’s Facebook page that I remember in 1984, two years after our graduation from AHS, my band, ‘Skyward,’ got a spot in a Christian talent search competition at Thomas Wolfe Auditorium. We played in the late morning and stayed through all the acts. The final group to take the stage was called ‘Second Advent,’ and they were based at the University of Kentucky. Imagine my surprise when I saw Andy up there on stage playing trumpet! After we both got back to Asheville, it was always assuring to see his real estate signs out and about. I’m just devastated, and I found out too late to make the reception. But please know I’ll light a candle for him at my church tomorrow (St. James Episcopal Church, Hendersonville). My prayers are with all of you, especially, Cathy (whom I remember from AHS as well).
Cheryl and the Family,
Joyce, my family and I want to offer you and the boys our deepest sympathy. I, like everyone else, am shocked to hear the news about Andy. I still remember the years of trumpet lessons. I am at a loss for words right now, especially since we learned this evening that he had passed. Know that we would have definitely been there but did not learn of his death until this evening. He will be sorely missed. Know that we will definitely be calling out your name earnestly in prayer.
Sincerely,
Robin and Joyce Thames and Family
I can see Andy smiling and playing his trumpet as he met his Lord. His loving smiling personality will be greatly missed.
WHEN THE TRUMPET SOUNDS IN HEAVEN IT WILL BE ANDY. WHAT A FUN-LOVING GREAT GUY! TOM REDWINE
Cheryl, When the trumpets sound for Jesus to return Andys horn will be heard not just by those who loved him but by the whole world. We will miss him for all he was. I still remember us sitting in the hut tub at Christmas Inn just before Carl packed the thing with everyone we could get into it.
Bill & Edith
We just want to say we Love you both.
Andy was a wonderful person.
God Bless you both.
I remember hearing Andy’s trumpet ringing through our West Asheville neighborhood during our high school years. I remember the time he spent working with me 13 years ago to find the property I have now. My condolences to his family. He will be missed.
Our thoughts and prayers are with
the family.Immanuel Baptist Church
To Andy’s family,
I was shocked to learn on Facebook that Andy is at rest a fact so hard comprehend. I’ll never forget going to camp as a teenager and Andy was one of the camp counselors. Him and a guy named Paul were hilarious and led many of the skits, etc. It was a life changing week for me. I’m so glad I had the opportunity to have Andy’s life positively effect mine.
I always liked Andy. He was always raising peoples spirits with his cheerfulness and good humor. I am so glad he was a Christian. I would like to think that when we hear the ‘trumpet call of God’ (I Thess. 4:16) That Andy will be joining in with the heavenly brass!
We met Andy at an open house he was hosting 14 years ago- and he remained our friend long after he helped us buy our home. Over the years he never forgot us and always made a point of remembering us at Christmas with a sweet gift. Cheryl, we are one of the blessed families that ate the yummy breads you made for Andy to give as gifts- thank you!! Up until last week, Andy kept in touch with us through cards and calls, which was amazingly thoughtful and kind and unheard of in today’s business world. Andy really cared about us and for that we will always remember him fondly.
I didn’t know Andy really well. I worked with him in Real Estate. He was the type of guy you didn’t need to know well to know that he left an impact on everyone. Any time I heard his name mentioned in the Real Estate world it was spoken with kindness and respect. Now it is spoken in reverence. Please know my prayers are with you.
Mrs.Delong,
I will never forget the beautiful sound of that trumpet on Nic and Amber’s wedding day. He surely was gifted by the LORD. I am sure he is in that joyous band in heaven. He also had such a wonderful smile and personality, you felt like you had known him your whole life. I am so ever thankful for sharing that moment. I know God will be with you at all times! Teresa Epling ( Amber’s mother-in-law)
May gods grace comfort you and your family at this time. I am so sorry to hear of this.
Cheryl,
My heart goes out to you and your two sons. I’ve known Andy for almost 16 years through the Real Estate business. He was a good man and will be missed by all he knew.
Peace- Derek Weekley
My heart goes out to all of you in this unexpected time of loss. Andy brought joy and happiness to everyone he met and he will be greatly missed. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Tricia Curnow-Orr, Bryan, Ethan & Ashley
Bill,Edith,Cheryl, and Family,
May God be with you at your time of need. If anything can be said about Andy and his time here on earth, it is that he lived his life for the Lord. He is up there right now rejoicing! I pray that God gives all of you the strength in your time of need. I knew Andy from West Asheville Assembly way back when, and he always had a caring and generous heart. I know he will be greatly missed, but know this, that Andy was a blessing to everyone that knew him. God be with you!
Cheryl, Andy was truly an awesome guy! He always made you feel better when you saw him and you felt a foot taller when you walked away from talking to him! His laugh was extremely contagious and I laughed more that weekend we were in Pigeon Forge than any weekend in my life! He was gifted in so many areas and I am forever thankful for when you and Andy came and helped out our Sunday School class for several months! I loved to hear him play that trumpet, MAN he had talent! Cheryl, we are here to help you for whatever you need. 24/7 you call us for anything.Cheryl, we are all praying for you and love you so much. We are just a call away! You were an awesome wife and friend to Andy and we all have him in our hearts, especially all the great memories! Andy’s life was well lived for Jesus Christ- and you can ALWAYS be proud of what A man of God Andy truly was!!
Bill,Edith,Cheryl and Family.
I wanted to extend my condolences to you all.To let you know you are all in my thoughts and prayers.Andy will be greatly missed.
We’re so sorry Bill and Edith to hear about the passing of Andy. You are very special people to us, and we’ll be sure to keep you in our thoughts and prayers. We always enjoyed hearing Andy play the trumpet, now he’s playing with the best.
We are so sorry to hear he is gone. He was a great man and wonderful friend that our family had known for a long time. Our deepest sincerity and prayers go out to you and all of your family. We will greatly miss him.
The Lehr Family
Dear Cheryl,
I just heard about Andy on June 13 when I came up to Asheville to play Sax at the Grove Park. The other musicians told me the news. I was greatly saddened and shocked at this. Grand memories of Andy rushed through my head because we had a musical connection. Kate and I give our condolences. We all had some great fun times together in Asheville and the beach that Kate and I hold dear in our memories. Andy and I had a lot of fun playing music together and Stolen Moments was a good band because of Andy. The Buddy K and the UNCA Jazz band Andy raised the standards not to mention the hundreds of happy newly wed couples that announced their vows with Andy’s trumpet solos. Andy made a positive influence on the world and me and I will miss him greatly. I will always remember Andy’s wit and humor, positive attitude, business drive, great musicianship…love for Christ and you. I am sorry that we lost touch when we moved to South Carolina 10 years ago. If there is anything that we can do to support you and your boys please let me know. I would like to visit with you next time that we come to Asheville and Black Mountain. My phone number is 843-317-1715.
I am so sorry for your loss. I have many fond and fun memories of Andy. My brother and I toured with Advent many years ago and I remember him as not only a very talented musician but also a dedicated follower of Christ. You are in my prayers.
I just found out about Andy’s passing and was floored. He was one of the first people I met in Asheville. He was a nice guy with a pure heart. As he has reached the other shore, our thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Dear Bill, Edith and Cheryl…
We are all truly sad, we just found out about Andy. He was a great guy and super musician. I enjoyed what little time we had playing praise & worship with him a WAAOG. Shelia and I were just remembering the crush that Chelyn had on Andy when she was only 4 years old. ‘My boyfriend is Andy Belong and he Belongs to me!’ Is what she used to say. She could not say Delong. Andy used to get such a kick out of hearing that. We know that Andy is with our heavenly Father and I am sure that he is playing praise & worship right before our Lord… isn’t that a wonderful thought? And one day this old bass player will be right there with him. God’s blessings to all of you. Please let us know if there is anything we can do.