Max McMillan Dillingham
September 11, 1915 ~ December 31, 2008
Resided in:
Weaverville, NC
Max McMillan Dillingham, 93, of Weaverville, died Wednesday, December 31, 2008, at Pisgah Manor Health Care.
A native of Buncombe County, he was a son of the late William Lyda and Attie Arrowood Dillingham. He was also preceded in death by a daughter, Rebecca Lynn Dillingham; brothers and sisters, Zalph, Everett, Prentiss P., and Woodrow Dillingham; Irene Honeycutt and Della Lunsford.
Mr. Dillingham earned his Bachelors Degree in Forestry from NC State and worked for Champion Paper. He was a US Army veteran of WWII, Corps of Engineers, Forestry Division and was an active member of Acton United Methodist Church where he served in the choir and on the Administration Board. He was a member of Candler Lions Club.
Survivors include his wife of 63 years, Oberia Carson Dillingham; a daughter, Robin Gibson and husband Jim of Chattanooga; a grandson, Aidan Gibson; and a sister, Frances Chappell of Cary.
Graveside services will be 11:00 a.m. Monday at Forest Lawn Memorial Park with the Rev. Jeane S. Walker officiating.
His family will receive friends at Acton United Methodist Church following the service and request that memorials be made to Acton UMC, 171 Sand Hill Road, Asheville, NC 28806 or to Candler Lions Club, c/o Charles Rice, 256 Old US 19-23, Candler, NC 28715.
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We send to you our deepest sympathy at your loss.I remember him from years ago but never forgot him.
Max – you were the most kind and gentle man I have ever known. I thank God that I’ve been blessed with knowing you AND Oberia! I treasure each and every moment I spent with you…in your home, sitting in ‘the preacher’s chair’ or eating dinner together…driving you over to see Oberia at Pisgah Manor…and this past month standing beside you, telling all your caregivers stories about your life with Oberia. Thanks, Max, for blessing me!
I was so sad to hear the news about Max. I will always remember him as a kind and gentle man.
Hope
I have fond memories of the Dillingham family. You have my greatest sympathy at the loss of Max. Howard Hazelrigg
Dear family,
We just want you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. I was in the Lion’s Club with Max and he was a great fellow; such a pleasure to be around.
Sincerly,
Ron
What a wonderful man! Max will always be a part of my chilhood memories, his kind and loving nature will be missed. Our prayers are with you…The Duckers
Glenna Ducker Moye, Pam Ducker McClure, and Steve Ducker