Vivian Arcoyo Brown

vivian brown

December 30, 1956 ~ September 10, 2026

Born in: Quezon, Philippines
Resided in: Hendersonville, North Carolina

Vivian Benedicto Arcoyo Brown died and went to be with her maker September 10, 2026 after a fight with breast cancer. She was a courageous fighter, but, in the end, cancer was stronger than her desire to live and her doctors’ healing arts. The Lord called her and she answered His call. She died at Elizabeth House in Hendersonville, NC under the comfort care of Four Seasons Hospice.

Vivian is predeceased by her father, Paulino Garilao Arcoyo; her mother, Carmen Benedicto Arcoyo; her father-in-law, Barton Crouse Brown; and, her mother-in-law, Dorothy McCaul Ballard Brown. She is survived by her husband, Barton McCaul Brown, and her son, Barton Ian Brown. In the Philippines, she is survived by her older sister, Evelyn Arcoyo Mauricio; her brother, Joaquin (Jack) Arcoyo, and Franklin (Buck) Arcoyo. She is also survived by many nephews and nieces. For example, Judith Alice Brown and Amy Brown in the U.S. and Melissa Mauricio and Mark John Mauricio in the Philippines.

During life, Vivian bridged two worlds. She was born December 30, 1956 in a rural area on the Philippine Island of Palawan. Rising from humble beginnings, and with family support, she attended and graduated from Holy Trinity College in Puerto Princesa, Palawan with a degree in English. After teaching English for two years at the National High School in Quezon, Palawan, she transferred to the National Museum of the Philippines where she had a 17-year career. Her last assignment was as the Shrine Curator (Museum Branch Manager) at the Tabon Caves Archaeological Site in Quezon. In 1997, she came to the United States and to Hendersonville, NC with her husband. In Hendersonville, she began a new career with First Citizen’s Bank finishing as a mortgage loan closer. She then transferred to the Social Security Administration where she worked 15 years becoming a Lead Customer Service Representative.

Vivian was active in the Filipino-American Community of Western North Carolina, serving in several offices, and the Boy Scouts of America where she also took on various leadership roles. She was an avid photographer and won several prizes at the Mountain State Fair. Moreover, she was also an avid gardener. Her horticultural specialty was the day lily and her garden was the largest in her neighborhood, a mini arboretum. Always involved in projects, she made all-occasion greeting cards, gemstone jewelry, scrap books, and sewed clothes, bandanas, pillowcases, etc. She also loved to write letters, speeches, and descriptions of photographs and museum specimens. Vivian was convivial, always supported her family, was generous to her friends, and always did things with style. In the culinary arts, she was known for making an endless stream of rum cakes for her office mates and potluck parties. She was rightly proud of her Filipino heritage and proud to have been an American as well.

Vivian is with the ancestors now; and, we can be assured she’s still doing all she can in that other world to help her family and friends in this one.

Vivian’s viewing and memorial service (her luksang parangal) will be held at the Lake Julian location of the Groce Funeral Home (72 Long Shoals Road, Arden, NC 28704) on Sunday, September 20, 2026. Viewing will begin at 12:30 PM and the service will begin at 2:00 PM. Her service will be livestreamed and can be seen by visiting this page, starting at 1:55 PM on Sunday afternoon.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Pardee Hospital Foundation to benefit the Cancer Center (www.pardeehospitalfoundation.org).

Vivian will be buried in the Western Carolina State Veterans Cemetery in Black Mountain, NC at a later date.

Services

The Family Will Greet Friends: September 20, 2026 12:30 pm - 2:00 pm

Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian
72 Long Shoals Road
Arden, NC 28704

(828) 687-3530
http://grocefuneralhome.com

Funeral Service: September 20, 2026 2:00 pm

Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian
72 Long Shoals Road
Arden, NC 28704

(828) 687-3530
http://grocefuneralhome.com

Burial:

Western Carolina State Veterans Cemetery
962 Old US Hwy 70
Black Mountain, NC 28711

(919) 664-1195

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  1. We have been fortunate to be able to enjoy Vivian’s gardening prowess over the years – our backyard neighbors.
    Our deepest sympathy to Bart and family.
    Jim and Eileen Langdon

  2. We never had an opportunity to meet Vivian personally, however, her beautiful heart and spirit have often been described by our friend and her friend, Miss Lynn Young. What a beautiful soul she must have been. May her memory forever be cherished in the hearts of all who knew her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

  3. Vivian my dearest friend, I shall remember you always, our walks, talks, adventures in boyscouting, all your talents you’ve shared, jewelry and card making, beautiful flowers you’ve nurtured, the good food you’ve shared….. Have peace and rest my friend. You inspired me with your generous and true friendship. Your legacy will go on.❤️

    • How I miss you Vivian but I am glad that you are no longer in pain. Words cannot express my sorrow. My family is so sad that we lost a friend but God will keep you and greet you with loving hands. It is not good bye, it’s until we meet again.

  4. My dear amiga, you will be deeply missed. We will miss your sweet personality, your dedication to your family and friends, and the special touch you brought to everything you accomplished. I will always honor your memory and think of you as an incredible human being and a dear friend. You will always hold a special place in my heart. May you rest in peace. ❤️

  5. Vivian was always kind and sweet in a place where it was sometimes difficult to remain that way. She always held her professionalism and her customers were always given her best. Truly one of the good ones, she will be missed. Godspeed Vivian to your home

  6. To the family of Vivian she was a very sweet lady I worked with her at SSA in Asheville she was always kind always helpful and such a beautiful soul so sorry for your loss I know she will be missed by so many people

  7. Vivian will remain precious to me. Our friendship started in high school, highlighted with important events in our lives. She will be sadly missed and lovingly remembered. My sincere condolences to Bart, Ian,her loved ones both in the Philippines and US .. 🎶 Beyond the Sunset 🎼

  8. In loving memory of Vivian, my dear friend and co-worker. She was more than just a colleague; she was my go-to inspiration and an informal leader. As a fellow customer service rep, I watched in awe as she worked her magic with customers—her finesse was something to behold!

    Vivian’s love for her family and her Filipino community was clear, and her passion for gardening, photography, and jewelry making brought joy to my life.

    And let’s not forget her legendary rum cake! Just like her, it was sweet, unforgettable, and always the highlight of any event. I counted on that cake as much as I counted on her—both made every gathering a little brighter. Vivian, you were my special ingredient, and you will be missed dearly. ❤️

  9. In loving memory of our dear friend Vivian. She was such a generous soul. As she fought her battle with cancer, she worked diligently to help my family in GA with answers. They navigated the same path, fighting to the end the battle with cancer.
    From her enthusiasm in gardening to showering her friends and family with her gregarious personality and love…she will be missed.

  10. What a privilege to know this wonderful woman. We loved her and we will remember her always. Blessings and condolences to everyone.


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