Rebecca Hartley Brown

rebecca brown

October 28, 1956 ~ May 30, 2026

Born in: Asheville, North Carolina
Resided in: Asheville, North Carolina

Rebecca Hartley Brown, 69, of Asheville, North Carolina, passed away peacefully on May 30, 2026.

Born on October 28, 1956, in Asheville, Becky loved the mountains she called home and remained deeply rooted in the community throughout her life. Faith, family, and friendship were the cornerstones of Becky’s life. She dedicated herself to caring for those around her with honesty, loyalty, kindness, and compassion.

Becky is survived by her beloved husband, David Brown; her sons, Matt Greene (Kernersville) and Austin Greene (Raleigh); her stepdaughters, Dr. Stephanie Brown (Raleigh) and Laura Brown and her husband, Patrick Hayden (Hood River, Oregon); her grandchildren, Sierra and Charlotte Bravo and Colter and Wyatt Hayden; her cousin, Sarah McIntyre and her husband, Jim (Zirconia); her sister-in-law, Beverly Brown and her partner, Julia Huff-Jerome (Pittsboro); and her brother-in-law, John Brown and his wife, Carolyn (Sarasota, Florida).

She was preceded in death by her parents, John and Opal Hartley, and her sister, Beverly Hartley.

Becky earned her bachelor’s degree from Appalachian State University before beginning a rewarding career at Mission St. Joseph’s Hospital. Over the years, she generously contributed her time and talents to numerous civic, charitable, and community organizations, earning the respect and admiration of all who worked alongside her.

Becky was a devoted member of Central United Methodist Church in downtown Asheville. She especially cherished attending Bible studies and programs at The Billy Graham Training Center at The Cove. Her faith guided her life and inspired the care she showed to family, friends, and neighbors alike.

Becky embraced life with enthusiasm and gratitude. She loved sunny days and watching hummingbirds outside her window. She was a fan of Appalachian State football, Steely Dan, and Scottie Scheffler. She appreciated a well-dressed person, a new comedy series to enjoy, and chocolate cream pie. Among her favorite adventures were international travels with David and friends. Some of Becky’s most treasured memories were made in Wild Dunes, where generations of family gathered year after year to share laughter, celebrate milestones, and enjoy one another’s company.

Becky was often the one who brought people together, nurtured traditions, and kept family and friends connected. Her warmth, quick wit, generous spirit, and unwavering devotion to others left a lasting impression on all who knew her. Becky’s legacy is one of faith, friendship, kindness, service, and love. Her life was a blessing to many, and her memory will be cherished always.

A funeral and memorial service will be held at Central United Methodist Church on Saturday, June 6, 2026 at 2 p.m.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Central United Methodist Church or MANNA FoodBank.

Groce Funeral Home’s Lake Julian team is assisting the family.

Services

Memorial Service: June 6, 2026 2:00 pm

Central United Methodist Church
27 Church Street
Asheville, NC 28801

(828)253-3316

Funeral Home Assisting The Family:

Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian
72 Long Shoals Road
Arden, NC 28704

(828)687-3530
http://grocefuneralhome.com

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  1. I grew up in Asheville and was best friends with Becky’s sister Beverly. Although I was unaware of it at the time because I was two classes ahead of her at Asheville High, that we attended the same University, Appalachian.! I was also a photographer for the annual staff at Asheville high school in 1972 and 73. I took many pictures of Becky as a cheerleader that were published in the 73 annual at Asheville High. My most sincere condolences go out to David, their children, and stepchildren. May the Lord wrap his arms around you during this very difficult time.

  2. Wishing lightness and peace to Becky and her family during this time. And may her life and legacy inspire those around her to become their most true, fullest selves.

  3. David, Tom and I are so very sorry for your loss..God is with you..you
    are never alone. We include your children also..libby
    .

  4. I worked with Becky in Marketing at Mission in our last months there as a group, during the time we said good-bye to Merrill. Becky was such a grace-filled woman in all situations. She brought such dignity, integrity, skill, and style to her work at Mission. I always think of her when I see a rubber duck. I’m so sorry for you her family that she has passed, but I know her faith is now sight. As was said about Merrill when she passed can also be said about Becky – “She was a credit to humanity.” I’m glad to have known her.

  5. Dear David and family,
    I am so sad to hear of Becky’s passing… My prayers are with all of you.
    Sincere Sympathies,
    Susan

  6. I also worked with Becky in marketing at Mission St. Joseph’s.
    A kind, caring and generous person to all.
    My sincere condolences to family and friends.

  7. My thoughts and prayers are with Becky’s family. She was a beautiful woman both inside and out. I enjoyed getting to know her and the love for children.

  8. David,
    Don and I are so saddened by Becky’s passing. We share many memories with her from our early college days and the with the 2 of you. Best roommate and friend forever. My the Lord comfort you and the children❤️


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