Mary Jo Drake

mary drake

March 2, 1935 ~ November 22, 2023

Born in: Miami, FL
Resided in: Asheville, NC

Mary Josephine “Mary Jo” Henshaw Drake, 88, of Asheville, NC, went to be with her Lord and Savior on November 22, 2023. She was born on March 2, 1935, in Miami, FL, to Mary Alma Smith Henshaw and Howard Warner Henshaw. Mary Jo was preceded in death by her husband, James Edward Drake, parents, brother, Richard S. Henshaw, and son-in-law, Landon Grindstaff.

Mary Jo was a graduate of Miami Edison High School and later graduated from the University of Miami in Florida with an Art Education degree. She had a passion for art and taught elementary students in North Miami. After moving to North Carolina her primary and favored occupation was being a dedicated housewife and mother.

Mary Jo was a wonderful mother, wife, and sister. She had a love for sewing, gardening, and arts and crafts. She was a former member of First Church of North Miami Congregational and an active member of Abernethy United Methodist Church in Asheville.

Mary Jo is survived by her sister, Jean Ann Johnson, of Littleton, CO; and her three children, Karen Grindstaff, of Alexander, NC; David Drake (Donna), of Leicester, NC; and Joann Shriner (John), of Cookeville, TN. She also leaves behind six grandchildren, Sarah Grindstaff Lutz (Cody) of Murfreesboro, TN; Daniel Grindstaff (Brittany) of Alexander; Dakota Drake (Brittany) of Charlotte, NC; Dylan Drake (Brittany) of Asheville; Peter Shriner (Maggie) of Asheville; and Ian Shriner (Kimberly) of Burke, VA. Mary Jo was also blessed with twelve great-grandchildren: Abigail and Eli Grindstaff, Libby and Walker Lutz, Noah, Levi, and Thea Drake, Lillian and Sadie Drake, Wiley and Mavis Shriner, and Jackson Shriner.

A memorial service will be held on Saturday, November 25, 2023, at Abernethy United Methodist Church, with visitation beginning at 1:00 p.m. followed by a celebration of life at 2:00 p.m. Pastor Dianne Johnston will officiate. The graveside service will take place the following day at 2:00 p.m. at Green Hills Cemetery.

Mary Jo will be deeply missed and fondly remembered for her smile, laughter, creativity, and Christmas coffee cakes.

Services

Funeral Home Assisting The Family:

Groce Funeral Home - Patton Ave.
1401 Patton Ave.
Asheville, NC 28806

(828)252-3535
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com

Visitation: November 25, 2023 1:00 pm - 2:00 pm

Abernethy United Methodist Church
1418 Patton Avenue
Asheville, NC 28806


Celebration of Life: November 25, 2023 2:00 pm

Abernethy United Methodist Church
1418 Patton Avenue
Asheville, NC 28806


Graveside Service: November 26, 2023 2:00 pm

Green Hills Cemetery
25 New Leicester Hwy.
Asheville, NC 28806

(828)252-9831

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  1. Dear Karen & family,
    I just read about your mother. You have my deepest sympathy. I lost my mama back in 2016. I was her caregiver for several years & I still greatly miss her as she was my best friend, Cherish your memories. Again, my deepest condolences.

    • Mary Jo & Jim were great friends when Jim was Chief at LVFD. We still talk of the good times we had. I can’t believe its been that long. Remember the good times. Thinking of your family,
      With Love
      Pam & Randy Price

  2. I had the opportunity to meet, as she preferred me calling her, Mary Jo when she needed Home Health Physical Therapy. We enjoyed working together with her rehab & she was determined to succeed. Mary Jo enjoyed many creative activities and had wonderful talents & abilities. I continued to visit with her when she moved to Harmony. I’m sending you all prayers and warm hugs as you travel this grief journey.

  3. Mary Jo was a wonderful lady. We are so sorry to hear of her passing. Our prayers are with the family.


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