Charlotte Buchholz Sluder

charlotte sluder

April 7, 1935 ~ September 15, 2022

Born in: Chattanooga, TN
Resided in: Asheville, NC

Charlotte Buchholz Sluder, 87, passed away peacefully with her loving family by her side on September 15, 2022, at Solace Hospice House, in Asheville.

Charlotte was born in Chattanooga, TN, in 1935. She was preceded in death by her parents, Julius W. Buchholz and Antonie R. Buchholz, who immigrated from Germany. She is preceded in death by her beloved brother, and only sibling, Julian R. Buchholz.

Charlotte is survived by her loving husband of 62 years, Robert Sluder, 92; four children; Robin Sluder Barnes (Jay Barnes); of Raleigh, NC, Tony Sluder; (Bonnie Sluder) Louisburg, NC, Michael Sluder of Asheville, and Evan Sluder (Kelly Tweed Sluder), of Asheville. She is also survived by seven grandchildren; Heather Denning (Trevor Denning), of Morehead City, NC; Lindsey Norris (Tevin Norris), of Raleigh; Taylor Sluder, Carson Sluder, Matthew Sluder, Logan Sluder and Sarah Sluder, all of Asheville; and her two great-grandchildren; Treyson and Jaycie Denning.

Charlotte treasured her family and spent her life caring for them. She valued her friends and was known for her kind nature, selflessness and her sense of humor. She also loved to sing and dance when no one was looking. Charlotte found her calling to care for the elderly after caring for her ailing mother, by working as an aid at several assisted living facilities, and retired from Deerfield in the early 90s.

A brief visitation will be held at 12:00 p.m. on Friday, September 23, at St. Joan of Arc Catholic Church, 768 Asbury Rd., Candler, NC. Following the visitation, a Mass will be held at 1:00 p.m. celebrating Charlotte’s life. A private burial for the family will follow.

In lieu of flowers, please donate to the St. Jude’s Charlotte Sluder Memorial Fund St. Jude’s Cancer Fund.

Services

Funeral Mass: September 23, 2022 1:00 pm

St. Joan of Arc Catholic Church
768 Asbury Road
Candler, NC 28715

(828)252-3151

Visitation: September 23, 2022 12:00 pm - April 25, 2025 1:00 pm

St. Joan of Arc Catholic Church
768 Asbury Road
Candler, NC 28715

(828)252-3151

Funeral Home Assisting The Family:

Groce Funeral Home - Patton Ave.
1401 Patton Ave.
Asheville, NC 28806

(828)252-3535
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com

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  1. We love you OMA! The slideshow was a beautiful collection of memories— and so many good times spent together with family. For me it brought back so many memories of holidays together, visits to Asheville, and those visits to our home in Pine Knoll Shores. I cherish those times; with much love to you Bob and all the family, peace, Jay

  2. Mom you were everything a mom should be and so much more. You were a guiding light and an example all could follow. I guess I will get to say it last “I love you more!”

  3. Mom you were everything a mom should be and more. You made this life so special and magical. I guess I get last say” I love you more!”

  4. Evan, I’m so sorry about your mother passing away. Please know I’ll be keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers! Much love to you all.

  5. To Robin, Tony, Michael, and Evan.
    I remember when I was young and so a were the four of you. I enjoyed visiting your Mom an Dad with my Mom. I wish we could’ve stayed more in touch and now she’s gone but forever in our hearts. So sorry for your loss.

  6. To Robin,Tony, Michael, and Evan,
    When I was little, and so we’re all of you,I enjoyed visiting with your Mom. I’m so sorry we never kept in touch, but she is and will always be in my heart.

  7. To Mr. Sluder, Tony, Robin, Michael and Evan, My heart goes out to you all, Mrs. Sluder was such a sweet, caring gentle soul that’s showed us nothing but love every time we would see each other. My love and Prayers go out to all of you and know we will ALL be reunited again one day soon, please let us know if you need anything at all,❤️❤️❤️

  8. I felt your love the first time we met, and was so lucky to have you as my Mother-in-Law. My ‘Mamos’. You will be missed and I will cherish memories of you always. I love you!

  9. To Bob and all the family- precious memories of my dear friend and classmate from LEH class 0f 1953. My husband and I always enjoyed seeing you both at our class lunches and annual picnics. He passed Oct. 5, 2021.

  10. To the Sluder Family,

    We were very sorry to hear of your wife & mother’s passing. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers during this time of loss and grief. It was so good to see everyone at the visitation service. May God give you comfort and peace in the
    days ahead.
    With Love,
    Anita Brooks & Danny J. Wilkins


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