Mary "Mimi" Cecil

December 11, 1931 ~ November 17, 2017
Resided in:
Biltmore Forest, North Carolina
Mary “Mimi” Ryan Cecil, a leader and tireless supporter of area non-profits, died on November 17, 2017, at her home in Asheville, N.C. She was 85.
Mrs. Cecil and her late husband, William A.V. Cecil who passed away October 31, 2017, were active members of the Asheville, NC community as owners of the historic estate, Biltmore.
Born Mary Lee Ryan on December 11, 1931, she was the daughter of textile manufacturer John J. Ryan, Jr., and granddaughter of the prominent New York banker, lawyer, and builder James T. Lee.
She graduated with a B.A. in English from Vassar College in 1953. Notably, she was in the first class of female graduates from the University of Michigan Law School. She was elected to the Law Review in 1956 and became a partner at the Wall Street firm of Cadwalader, Wickersham & Taft.
In 1957, she married William A.V. Cecil at St. Vincent Ferrer’s Roman Catholic Church in New York City. In 1960, the Cecils moved to Asheville, NC to raise their family and to oversee the management and preservation of Biltmore, which was created by his grandfather George W. Vanderbilt III. Upon their return, Biltmore was transformed into a privately owned, profitable, working estate that was named a National Historic Landmark in 1963.
While supporting her family’s endeavors at Biltmore, Mrs. Cecil became a legend in her own right within the community. Known for her relaxed and approachable manner, she was a familiar figure in the world of non-profit leadership, and devoted her life to making a difference in the areas of education, social inequities, the environment, and the arts.
Cecil was a trustee and served 14 years as Chair of the North Carolina Environmental Defense Fund. She was a founding board member of The Nature Conservancy in North Carolina and Friends of the Smokies, and was recognized for 20 years of stewardship by the National Park Service. She also served on the Board of the North Carolina Zoological Society. She received the Zone Conservation Award from The Garden Club of America and French Broad River Garden Club for her dedication to conservation of the environment, natural resources, and mountain heritage.
She was a supporter of the Asheville Symphony and Guild, the Asheville Art Museum, the Health Adventure, the United Way, and the National Forest Foundation.
Mrs. Cecil was also active with Warren Wilson College, the Buncombe County Board of Education, the Community Foundation of Western North Carolina, Hospitality House, Friends of the Smokies, and the National Parks Conservation Association.
She volunteered with the Mission Health System for 20 years and was a long-time member of The Biltmore Company’s Board of Directors.
Mrs. Cecil was devoted to her family, sharing her love of travel especially with her five grandchildren. As each grandchild reached the age of ten, they were able to pick a travel experience to share with her, creating a memorable tradition that spanned generations.
In the book Lady on the Hill, Mr. Cecil recognized Mimi Cecil for her integral part in Biltmore’s success story and in supporting those efforts for more than 45 years. “She has been a wonderful wife and mother and has offered her considerable gifts, skills, and abilities to our community, our mountains, and our country. I am profoundly in her debt,” he stated.
Mrs. Cecil is survived by her son, William A.V. “Bill” Cecil, Jr., and daughter-in-law Virginia “Ginger” Cecil; her daughter, Diana “Dini” Cecil Pickering, son-in-law George “Chuck” Pickering II, brother John J. Ryan III, and sister-in-law Jacqueline Ryan; five grandchildren; and two great grandchildren.
A funeral will be held at 10 a.m. on Monday, November 27, at the Cathedral of All Souls in Biltmore Village, followed by a private family burial. A reception will follow from 1 to 4 p.m. at Lioncrest on Biltmore Estate.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to support scholarships for students at Warren Wilson College. Checks may be made to Warren Wilson College with "WWC Fund Scholarships" in the “for” line and sent to Warren Wilson College Advancement; PO Box 9000; CPO 6376; Asheville, NC 28815.
Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian is assisting the family.
While I was only surrounded by the Biltmore company family For short time I hold nothing but great reverence for all of the Cecil family. Mi mi was a great lady and while heaven will sparkle brighter for her presence ; here will be dearly missed. I would also like to extend my deepest sympathies to all of the Cecil family for their loss of Bill SR. my heart goes out to all. Many blessings to all of Cecil family.
I had the great pleasure of doing Mrs. Cecil’s hair for a while and I adored her. It was an honor to have had her as a client . She had wonderful long term memory for her childhood and I would steer her in that direction so as to experience those times with her. My heart is so sad to have these wonderful human beings leave us. My heart is so sad for the family and the community. We owe so much to you all ! Thank you! May God give you comfort and please know, YOU all make a difference in our community. Mrs. Cecil’s legacy and Mr. Cecil’s have made a mark on all us in the community! They will be missed!
My sincere condolences to Mrs Cecil’s family.
She was a fine fine lady who cared about our
community and all of the people in it! We all
loved her very much.
Very sorry to learn of Mrs. Cecil’s passing, particularly so soon after Mr. Cecil’s. Their daughter Dini was a classmate of mine and the epitome of class. I’ll never forget a particular chat w Mr Cecil one evening – he was an important connected businessman – I may have mistakenly made a faux pas but he was understanding anyway. Keith Pickering and his wife (of Minnesota/ Daily Kos known) died about the same time as the Cecil’s and I hope they weren’t related to Chuck and Dini. My deepest condolences.
I am so very sorry for your loss of both Mr & Mrs Cecil. They were such wonderful and generous people who will be deeply missed by you as well as all the many lives they touched. What a legacy they leave for us! The Biltmore Estate is an amazing, awesome castle that has been enjoyed by millions.You are so very blessed to be a part of the Vanderbilt family, who, in turn, has blessed all of us in many ways. I’ve visited the Lady on the Hill numerous times and always enjoy it, then look forward to the next visit as there is forever something new to discover. It’s truly an adventure and I’m so appreciative to the Cecil’s for opening their mansion to all of us. May the God of all comfort bring peace to your hearts and know that you are in the prayers of countless numbers of people.
Please accept my sincerest condolences of the loss of your mom and dad. What amazing people! Such a great loss for Asheville. This community would be such a different place without the tireless efforts of Mr and Mrs Cecil. May you have much success carrying on your family’s legacy.
Mrs. C’ donated a guided personal tour through the Biltmore Estate to my church one year. I was fortunate to have won this. She was like a grandmother figure when she arrived. Very cordial and gave me a ride to the back door of the Estate, I did not even know they had a back door and I have been to the Estate hundreds of times. It was incredible having the red carpet laid out for us throughout the whole Estate because she was in it. She told me so much the no one knows behind the scenes, I had to write it all down that evening so I would never forget it. Mrs. C was well loved by everyone and a cheerful, kind woman. She had to be very much in love with Mr. C to have passed so soon after he did. Asheville and North Carolina have lost two wonderful people that contributed to the well being of other’s lives. I am glad to have spent time with her and loved hearing everything that she said. She will be missed. Gregory